(Closed) The Pre-BFP Club–pre-TWW and those in TWW (v2)

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

thanks for the new thread jag

ugh so I pretty much think I’m out, I caved and tested last night and today both BFN’s and now I have a tiny amount of brown spotting which is the norm for AF to begin her arrival, I’m so upset.

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

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@ms sweets: Hugs. This month was easier than last with the BFNs. I was telling a friend that I think that we didn’t hit the mark last month. I’ve come up with a plan to make it more a priority than before. I think being too busy really worked against us with our TTC chances. So, this cycle we’re going to work harder on it than before.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

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@jaguar: Thanks for the new thread! I’m using the CBFM not the throwaways. I have a little basket in the bathroom with my testing sticks and cups. Hubby was like, “I do not want to know what you are doing with that!”. He’s been really sweet. Every night this weekend he has asked me if I want to go make a baby. Such a doll!

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@ms sweets: I’m sorry! She is just one of those people you don’t like seeing around.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

It looks like we timed things well this month so now it’s a waiting game. According to temps and OPK, I think I Oed on Tuesday of this past week. Possibly Wednesday. And if that’s the case, it looks like I’m back to 28 days after two 30 day cycles.

BUT TCOYF originally had me Oing on Thursday. They change it to Tuesday IF, and only IF, I change vaginal sensation from lubricative to wet. And those can be pretty similar, so who knows. 

Now it’s a waiting game, which can be sooo tough. I’m not sure when I’ll test. Ideally 12 DPO or even later. But I have a few cheapies and I’m addicted to POAS so I don’t think I’ll hold out that long. 

The good news is that by changing my O date to Tuesday, I’m already 4 DPO instead of 2!!!! Lol!

 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Here’s my chart so far. It’s still a little iffy with the gradual temp increase. Before my miscarriage, I had a very obvious shift from low 97s (97.2 or so) to a 98+. Now it seems I have a few days of mid-97s before going up to 98… If I Oed on Thurs, it would just move my coverline to 97.6.

 

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT THE DIFFERENCE IS BETWEEN THE PINK AND PURPLE SHADING ON THE NUMBERS? I thought it was always purplish/gray… not sure what the pink means (97.5, 97.5 and 97.8 below).

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

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@Mrs. Bonnie Blue: Awwww! Your hubs is being so cute!!!! πŸ™‚

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@brox: It can be so hard to coordinate schedules and make time for TTC. Before you know it, the small window is up!

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@ms sweets: Uggg, sorry. Hope she doesn’t show!

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@jaguar: Thanks for the new thread! We needed it!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

*does a dance* I have EWCM! For the first time in like 3 months!

I only have a quick second to update. I’m on CD22, expecting O anywhere between today and CD26. BD-ing right on track. Yay!

Life is good πŸ™‚ Off to get busy cough cough πŸ˜‰

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

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@MrsMaine: GO GET BUSY GIRL!!! Woooo hooooo!Cool

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

thanks everyone, I’m so sick of seeing AF.  But I have a question for everyone: if you had a child already and their birthday ended being in the same month around the same time as your projected due date (if you were to get pregnant in that time frame) would you skip that month so as to not take away from the child you already have or would you keep on TTCing?

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

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@HopingToBeaMama: Isn’t he? Smile

 

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@brox: It does take some coordinating! Hubby works out-of-town–not as extreme as Jholller’s hubby does, but he is only here every couple of days. We are lucky that this weekend is his long weekend. Hopefully our ‘hard’ work will pay off this month!

Too Much Information alert!!!! So, at the movies today I went to the bathroom and when I wiped, serious EWCM, like hanging off the TP. My sides are hurting in the front, so I’m wondering if I’ll O tomorrow. It would be perfection. Wink

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

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@ms sweets: I have two friends, who are sisters, whose birthdays are two days apart. They never felt like anything was ‘cheated’ from them by having their birthdays so close together. My Hubby and BIL’s birthdays are 12 days apart.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

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@ms sweets: I would keep TTC. Now, had you asked me this 8 months ago, I probably would have had a different answer. At that point, our first month TTC would have given us a Christmas baby. I didn’t really want a Christmas baby but never thought we’d get pregnant right away. We did, and then miscarried. So now I’m a little biased, and I will just keep TTC- I won’t plan around anything. I’m also on month 8, so it shown me that no matter how well you plan, you never know how long it will take. 

I know a few families who’s kids’ birthdays are less than 2 weeks apart. But they make it work– sometimes they do the birthday of the first one a few days early and the 2nd one a few days late, so their parties are 3 weeks apart. 

PLUS- if you wait until next month, and then you deliver 2 weeks early, their birthdays will still be really close!

But that’s just me!!!! πŸ™‚ 

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