(Closed) The Pre-BFP / PRE-TWW and those in TWW Club- Part 4

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Post # 557
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Hope everyone had a nice holiday and is heading into a relaxing weekend.

Kinda upset over here. If it’s not enough that my marriage is kind of on the rocks right now…

FF just updated my chart and gave me crosshairs for the first time. I’m supposedly now 3DPO. Although I did get another High reading (#13 I believe?) on CBFM this AM. Due to the rockiness DH and I only BD -1 O and -3 O. I guess that should upset me but at this point the rockiness of my marriage kind of takes precedence. Anyway, basically just a bad week for me all around at this point. Good luck to everyone in the TWW…

Post # 558
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@chastenet:  I always have some days where I’m REALLY hungry (like almost insatiable) in the week before AF.  Without fail.  So besides the PMS bloat and heaviness, I also end up eating way more too.  It usually evens out after AF leaves, but it sure makes me feel crappy.

 

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@MrsMaine:  Oh MissMaine, of course, you’re happy for your cousins even if you don’t feel it right now.  What rotten, horrible timing!  It’s bad enough to go through what’s happening right now, let alone have a pregnancy announcement in your face!  I am so, so sorry. πŸ™ πŸ™ Thank goodness for your supportive DH. 

 

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@ieatunicorns: We’re here for you if you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to or just someone to listen.  I’m really sorry you’re going through this… πŸ™ πŸ™

 

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@jaguar:  Christmas is my favourite holiday too!  I’m pretty excited to spend our first Christmas together as a married couple and decorate our home for the first time!

Post # 559
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

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@Keppa:  I’m sorry to hear that…I hope you and your DH can work through things together.  Praying for a better week for you and your hubby.

Post # 560
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Thanks you all for your support. I went to the doctor today after my labs went slightly up. I had an ultrasound and to the absolute shock of everybody they found a sac and a heartbeat. With my hormone levels they told me they usually are lucky to see a sac and never expected a heartbeat. I do have a subchorionic hemmorhage and a little fluid around the sac which could be the sac starting to seperate. My sac was a little small too, but the baby measured fine.

My emotions have been everywhere today. I am glad we saw the heartbeat, but I am so worried still. The day started with them telling me I would probably pass everything very soon to having a possible viable pregnancy.

Post # 561
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

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@ieatunicorns: Oh my gosh. Sending tons of thoughts and prayers your way. Stick baby, stick! I hope with all my might that this miracle pulls through for you…

Post # 562
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

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@Keppa: I’m so sorry to hear there are marriage troubles with you hon, sometimes TTC brings out the stressful bits of our relationships, and it’s not easy at all. Sending you lots of love and hoping things work out. *hug*

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@MrsFarmer: Yay! Christmas, for the win! πŸ™‚ I have a whole pile of little pressies in our spare room ready to wrap up – but still need to pick up a little something for my grandparents and for my brother/future sil. <– I think I’ll get them a group present.

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@ieatunicorns: Wow! A heartbeat! That is the most exciting news. I am so thrilled and will pray that everything sticks as it’s supposed to. x

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@MrsMaine: How are you, my lovely?

Post # 563
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

@MissMaine and 

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@jaguar:Thank you so much, you have no idea how much I am rooting for you both to get through this rough time and get your BFPs. Even when you both are going through such rough times you have been such a great support to everyone here.

Post # 564
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

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@ieatunicorns: It’s the least we/I can do! πŸ™‚ So what’s the plan for you guys now – do you have a load of appointments scheduled to check in on your wee one?

Post # 565
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

The plan, as long as I don’t pass anything this weekend, is to check in on Monday and at least do labs. We will have to monitor with both lab and ultrasound since they aren’t matching the way they would expect. I am not sure how soon we will do another ultrsound, my doctor was out of the office today and the on-call doctor was going back and forth with him on the phone, so I am not sure what his exact plan will be.

Post # 566
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

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@ieatunicorns: Well, I have everything crossed for you guys. xx

Post # 567
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I got my first Peak day on the CBEFM. So exciting! We had my inlaws over for Thanksgiving and they spent Thursday night at our house. We gave up our bedroom for my inlaws and we had to hide all of our baby-making stuff so they won’t think we’re trying yet. 

I hid the CBEFM in the guest room closet and it was tough to hide the stick when I went to the bathroom this morning. Then I couldn’t get DH alone long enough to show him until they left around noon.

 

I’d love it if we had a Thanksgiving baby. What a way to remember the first Thanksgiving I ever hosted.

Post # 568
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

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@BrianneG: That is awesome! Do you mind me asking how many high days you had on the Monitor before your peak? I’m still waiting for one, and it’s been SEVEN high days. (CD27 today.) πŸ™

Post # 569
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

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@jaguar: Still high’s huh? Crazy isn’t it?? I truly hope you get yours soon. Waiting around and getting high’s for the last 13 days is totally throwing off my chi! It seemed great at first, but now that FF is telling me I probably O’d on Tuesday – it makes me start to wonder exactly what the CBFM is doing, ya know??

Post # 570
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

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@Keppa: Still highs. Almost done with using it, actually. At least until I start a new cycle. It seems this one is over!

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@BrianneG: Yay for your peak! πŸ™‚

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@jaguar: Still high? Jeez, Jag’s ovaries – get a grip and get on with it already!!

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@ieatunicorns: Ooh wow! Sticky baby dust to you!!

 

So much for the TWW. Now I’m headed into week 3. 15 DPO, BFNs on all the HPTs. Still crampy, still having creamy CM (although a little yellow today), temps still up. I want to stop testing and not care… but my drive to see 2 pink lines keeps making me POAS!! It’s a sickness, I tell you.

It seems like EVERYONE has been talking to me today about having a baby. “Oh YOU’LL be next. Are you sure you’re not pregnant?” I figured discussing CM at the dinner table with 18 other people wasn’t exactly the most appropriate thing to do, so I said “Yup, I’m sure!” They kept going with “oh, well you keep mentioning that you’re tired. Isn’t that a sign?” I just played dumb. I don’t need other people to symptom spot for me! I do that enough on my own! πŸ˜‰

On to tomorrow – another day, another HPT, maybe 2 lines tomorrow?? Who knows?!

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