(Closed) The Pre-Planning Question once again…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

If you’re both on the same page there’s no reason to feel guilty about preplanning. It’s only an issue if you’re taking it upon yourself and you both are definitely NOT on the same page. We preplanned. It’s fine. 🙂 Don’t worry.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

September is only a few months away, I’d be freaking out if I were you, that’s not much time especially if you have a lot that needs to be done. I’m just now planning the engagement talk (clarifying when and if it will happen) but I’ve already got the scheme, I’ve got so much planned and new things pop into my head all day. It’s hard not to blurt out… “I have a GREAT idea for a guest book!” when he’s around and I get excited thinking about it… If I actually said anything he’d think I was nuts, we haven’t even fully decided on the “if” lol. But I’d say, he likes seeing you excited and you’ve already had the talk, go ahead and plan, just maybe hold back a little on the wedding plan talk and such until the proposal? Not like I’ve had much experience to go by but sounds like you’re doing just fine 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I ordered our invitation paper a month before he proposed and had them sent to his work. I knew the ring was en route and there was no reason to hold off. If you’re in a time crunch and you both agree on Sept. 2012, get planning now. I would contact vendors immediately. You can start getting price quotes to look over and doing that budget stuff ahead of time.

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