Post # 1
I had a wedding. It was beautiful. My family was there. His family was there. We got married.
I wish I could tell you the story of all the little details I planned – I can’t.
I wish I could tell you all the funny things that happened – I can’t.
I wish I could show you all the beautiful pictures I paid through the nose for – I can’t.
My Mother-In-Law is a stalker on Wedding Bee. It’s true. And not the good kind, but the bad kind. I don’t know how she found me the first time, but she did. So, posts were deleted, usernames were changed and here I am again.
So, I am so sad I can’t write a recap because honestly – I have been dying to write it all out and brag a little about how the day went.
BUM – MER!!
Post # 3
Congratulations on your wedding!
But I’m a little confused…if she found you on here, won’t she be able to see that you called her the bad kind of stalker?
Post # 4
Why can’t you, Hun? I assume she is looking at posts and what not but I don’t understand 🙁
Post # 5
@HoyaLawya2010: Sorry – edited my post so that it made more sense.
Post # 6
I’d do it anyway. I mean, if she knows who you are, and presumably was there, what’s the difference?
Post # 7
I also had the same question that the PP has. Also, why can’t you brag about your wedding?
Post # 8
Wait why cant you recap under a differnt user name? I would make another one up.
Post # 10
So sorry my original post was confusing. I edited a little bit so it could make more sense.
This username is not the one she found out about. This is a new user. However, I don’t trust her and I think she still roams the boards hoping to find out which user I am which is why I can’t post anything!
Post # 11
I’m confused too, are you afraid she will say bad things about your wedding if you post?
Post # 12
I’m assuming it’s because she doesn’t want her Mother-In-Law to read her other posts on the site, and so if she posts pictures of her wedding, Mother-In-Law will know that this is her username, and then look at all her other posts. I totally get it. Sucks!
Post # 13
I still don’t understand why you can’t recap your wedding. Unless you were planning to post unflattering pics of Mother-In-Law and tell us what a nightmare she was
Post # 15
Oh, it sucks, it sucks like you won’t believe. I came as a new bee asking for advice on a very sad event that happened to us when we got engaged. The bees gave lots of advice… and suddenly, I got a phone call.
And there was drama.
And there was screaming.
And there was crying.
And… it sucked!
So I changed my username many months later and I came back, but I’ve been actively sharing my life and my struggles here with other bees – things she shouldn’t know, doesn’t need to know and wouldn’t want to know.
If I recap, she’ll see my face, she’ll recognize everything and she will read every blessed post I have ever written here.
Post # 16
@coconutmellie: Since I don’t know your relationship/or lack of with your Mother-In-Law…I say to heck with her snooping and post away!! I would love to see your recap and pictures.
However, if you think something bad would come out of it..I don’t know. Just wish I knew more about the situation to offer some advice. ((HUGS))