(Closed) The return of Mrs. Crazy, and my mild melt-down

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think the only thing I can really add to this is…


That sucks…plain and simple.  Don’t go out of your way to be nice, but don’t go out of your way to be mean (even though every part of your being wants to!).  There will be enough other people at the wedding that can distract you and allow you to ignore her with some dignity.  Good luck!

Post # 4
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oh no! Hopfully she wont be so crazy at the wedding!

Post # 5
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

I agree. At the wedding, there will be so many people that you won’t see her too much since you’ll spread your time with everyone. Try not to think about it too much. I missed your original thread-I can’t believe she wanted to set him up with her daughter after knowing you two were getting married. That’s crazy alright!!!!

Post # 6
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh wow…what a really werid and sticky situation.


The only thing i can say is that you dont know her so she will (hopefully) be a flower on the wall at the wedding and you wont even remember that she is there 🙂

Post # 8
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Ugh! Just stay away!!! Hopefully she doesn’t sniff you out and demand attention! What a yucky situation!! Good luck!

Post # 9
293 posts
Helper bee

First of all, I adore you.  Seriously, you always make me laugh, and I always read your posts because of it.

This woman sounds like a nutter, and like she has no “inside voice”.  I can’t imagine what it’s like to lose a son, especially at such a young age.  I also can’t imagine addressing someone you haven’t seen in years as both “son” and then offering up my daughter to said fake “son”.  Creepy.  Vomit. Ugh.

((hugs)) for you, my dear.  This is a tough one.

Post # 10
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh NO VM! I’ve been following your posts on the Crazies and I’m so sorry to hear she’s coming. You said that you only invited Mr. & Mrs. Crazy, right? There’s no chance that her daughter is coming…right?? Ugh…I feel terrible for you. I give you permission to be as rude as you want to be to her on your wedding day. Ick, and vomit.

Post # 12
979 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Don’t stress!  There were quite a few people that I REALLY did not want at my wedding, but when the day came, I didn’t even notice they were there.  Seriously.  And this was with a guest list of only 100.  So just plan on ignoring her and hopefully it will be like she is not even there at all!

P.S.  I have read your other posts, and I can’t help but feel sorry for her just a tiny bit.  This is probably the closest thing she will ever experience to her own son getting married, so as long as she doesn’t make a scene on your day, hopefully she will just use the experience as part of the mourning process and move on.

Post # 14
165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Hm. It honestly seems like maybe she was just joking around about “where’s my invitation?” but you never know! Either way, the attempt to set up your VERY ENGAGED Fiance with her daughter is NUTS, and would have me absolutley fuming. If it’s any consolation, she will likely end up embarassing herself and hopefully won’t bring anyone down with her…

Post # 15
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

oh, awkward. hopefully it will just result in a good story?

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