(Closed) The rudest thing I've every seen printed on a wedding invitation

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2340 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Oh my… Yell

Post # 4
1357 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@babecake:  Yes it is rude..

Post # 5
3525 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Please tell me you’re joking…

Post # 6
2073 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No way!!!  

Post # 7
381 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m not ballsy enough to do that! BUT, it’s not very nice of you to decide to give her less than you intended to just because she never came on the Bee to learn about how much people hate that. 

I would be very embarrassed with myself if I put that on an invitation or even said it for that matter. But, I have no issue with people desiring money over physical gifts. 

I haven’t seen anything out of the ordinary yet, and will probably never see anything that will top that doozy! 

Post # 8
2503 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@babecake:  That’s pretty ballsy! The most offensive thing we’ve seen is the classic “No boxed gifts, please!” printed right on the invitation under the venue and the date. We weren’t invited to this wedding but my ILs were and they were quite offended. Ironically, they were going to gift money anyway but after seeing that and coupled with the fact that it was a little out of the way, they declined to attend and didn’t send any gifts.

Post # 9
908 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

At least they are being honest.  They could have been a little less blunt.

Post # 10
6397 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@JoolyBee:  +1. If I wasnt a member here I wouldnt know that it was frowned upon.

Post # 11
48 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

Omg, that is extremely rude! She could have just skipped registering at a store and people would get the hint I would think. I personally would not have done that but to each his own.

Post # 12
6458 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

You can basically access their account.  That’s ridiculous.

Post # 13
2925 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I’m fine with people not registering and hinting that they don’t want boxed gifts. But… wow. That’s blunt! So rude!

Post # 16
5521 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh wow, that’s awful!

Also, how can people not know this is rude? I didn’t need to become a member of an internet forum to know that something like this is extremely bad etiquette, and, worse, just plain rude. IMO it is bad enough asking for cash full-stop; but to print it, in bold, and so bluntly?! Wow. Just, wow…

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