(Closed) The rudest thing I've every seen printed on a wedding invitation

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 212
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MangoSong:  I didn’t say thats what they need to give, i said thats what i gave!

i have not had wedding and i have not sent invites asking for a set price. 

Its a game that is played, and those that care about the custom will find out how much per plate and will give lucky gift.

Its not a Me thing at all, these rules and superstitions were there long before i was born. 

And since i can’t use Asian, Chinese, depending on what part also have different rules.

 

@aspasia475:  I am allowed to not find the OP invite not rude, and i have attended many weddings that ask for cash. cash i give is based on a taught traditional formula. Having a Chinese wedding is custom to give money as what it represents has spiritual meaning imo.

i did not say anyone is not allowed to find it rude, but to be told that my culture is all in my head and made up makes me very angry.

Post # 213
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@babecake:  I don’t think you can say the person is your friend. maybe you can show her the thread so she can see how petty and cheap you are.

Post # 214
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1083 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Putting a bank account number on an invitation is just. . . adsurd. Did they think about this before putting it on their invitations?! WOW. 

Post # 215
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Are you kidding! Thats RUDE & EMBARASSING!

Post # 216
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196 posts
Blushing bee

@babecake:  

I love cats but can’t have one 🙁  I get all red and sneezy if one even glances in my general direction!  My icon is a symbol of my longing LOL

Post # 218
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

[content moderated for snark, name-calling, personal attacks, flounce]

Post # 220
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1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I knew that was poor etiquette prior to joining the bee..   

Post # 221
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4858 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I find it incredibly ironic that people on here are arguing etiquette while fighting and name calling. 

 

Post # 222
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

This thread has run it’s course and I’m going to close it now.

 

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