(Closed) The scary truth of a strip club experience LONG

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
287 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

OHHH my goodness, this scares me to death!!! I am currently going through a “strip-club scare” with my fiance….

Post # 34
5283 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Like others I have been to strip clubs and havn’t seen any sort of touching or sexual favors. Does it happen? Of course! In fact a stip club in Dallas (not sure if it was the same one the OP went to) was shut down for prostitution.

The fact still remains: wether your FI/Husband goes to stip clubs or doesn’t, it is up to him to recieve these “services” if your guy doesn’t want to suck on a strippers nipples he won’t. If he gets proposed for some sort of sexual favor the decision is still his to make.

Post # 36
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


Post # 37
15 posts
  • Wedding: July 2011

@annieAAA, I agree with you entirely.  Obviously there are many many different experiences at these clubs, probably as many as there are patrons.  Yes, some pretty shady stuff can go down at some of these places and, I totally support being against them on principal.  But, that doesn’t change the fact that each patron has a choice on what goes on behind closed doors.  The OP had a horrible experience, was touched against her will, and she immediately left.  Any man can do this too. 

Stirip clubs can be avenues for prostitution and trafficking.  Period.  This is the sad truth behind these clubs.  That being said, no one is forcing any man to pay for sex at a strip club.  Not the strippers, not his friends.  It is one thing to cave into peer pressure and get a lap dance at a bachelor party.  It is another to pay for sex acts.  A man who does the former is probably just drunk and having a good time with his friends.  The one who does the latter probably would do it for free.  When my Fiance goes out and gets drunk with his friends he doesn’t cheat on me, strip club or no strip club. 

And, for what its worth, most men who are going to cheat won’t choose to do it in a private room around their groomsmen.  Obviously, as evidenced by these threads, people talk.  Most people who cheat tend to try not to get caught.  Its hard to do that when you are surrounded by 10 other guys. 

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