Post # 1
Some bees may know that in the ‘Confessions post’ http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/confessions-of-a-waiting-girl-1, that I was suspicious that my ring was now in the possession of my SO, and that I was 99% sure that it was being held in our little safe, usually kept under our bed.
Well my confession was that one day a few weeks ago I couldn’t take any more frustration, I had to know if my e-ring was in there (fyi – he put my ring on deposit a few months ago, so not randomly searching high and low for a ring that may not exist as it really does, haha).
While he was having a shower, I found the only set of the safe keys hidden in his bag (not so cleverly hidden, as I knew where to go for that), crept upstairs to grab the safe from under the bed and open it..
And the safe was GONE!! I am usually good at noticing things, and knew the safe was there a few days previously. So now my suspicions are in overdrive! I waited a few weeks, and last night, while coyly looking for something else under the bed I asked him.
“Where has our safe gone from under the bed? It’s missing!!” Pretending to panic a little..
“Ahh, that’s a secret, I’m not telling” SO told me, with that mischievious smile he does when he knows something I don’t.
So now instead of 99%, I am now 100% sure he HAS my ring under lock and key. And only he knows where the safe is, and has the only safe key. The pressure and excitement is building up now as I am thinking it may be coming soon over the holidays! Eeep!! 😀
Or am I just totally going insane now?
Post # 3
Haha you’re not going insane, it sounds like he has your ring. How exciting!
Post # 5
Haha smart man! I’m glad he hid it so that you could not ruin your surprise. Sometimes, we are our own worst enemies in that way. I know I would have very little self control too! Hope you can outlast the waiting game!
Post # 6
Oh how sneeaky of him! He must know you well enough to know that you would snoop for it! Anyway, congratulations on the upcoming engagement.
Post # 7
He sounds like he knows you WELL!
Post # 8
@TheMrs2013: That’s just what I was thinking! Good for him for anticipating your sneakiness, hehe. 😉
I hope you get it soon so we can all see it! 😀
Post # 10
Thank you ladies, you are all so supportive and I’m glad I’m not losing my marbles!
Yes I agree it must be a positive thing indeed that he’s one step ahead of me, and knows me well enough to hide it! Just the very fact that I’m so certain that I know where it is I’ve gone all impatient now!
I just know it’s in that safe, wherever that safe has now been hidden! But.. I will promise myself not to go looking for it, and if I do stumble on it, he has the only key safely on him at all times anyway!
It will be pure self dicipline for me not to snoop – not sure how long I will last before I go safe hunting though! Haha 😀
Post # 11
yipee! I just got butterflies for you.
Post # 12
Haha that made me giggle.
Good luck to you!
Post # 13
your safe is movable?? that doesnt sound…. well very safe 🙂
you are a very patient woman – i wouldnt be doing the water torture on him until he handed it over, safe and all
Post # 14
How exciting!! Hope you don’t have to wait much longer 🙂
Post # 15
You’re sneaky! But your soon-to-be fiance is sneakier! 😀
Post # 16
You’re definitely not insane! I say it sounds like he for sure has the ring. he probably knew you’d be tempted with that safe. I’d do the same exact thing as you! haha.