(Closed) the sex gets better?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
2278 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@LaTortuga:  My Fiance didn’t want to hurt me either, but we had long frank talks, and I had him do some BDSM related reading. Mind you, this all took months before he was comfortable. I realize it’s not for everyone, and you can’t push something that someone doesn’t want to do, but there’s nothing wrong with discussing it and being completely honest and open.

I recommend the following for reading:

  • Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
  • Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

  • The Loving Dominant by John Warren and Libby Warren

Feel free to PM me if you’d like 🙂

Post # 18
9948 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lol, ladies…

This post is over a year old… I am hoping that the OP figured out a way to improve things in the bedroom with much practice in the many many months that have passed since she first posted…

Wink *wink*


Post # 20
21 posts

Be very BLUNT …that’s only way they understand 

Post # 21
1197 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

my honey was a virgin when we met.  and yes, it gets SO much better!  experience and time really do the trick.  gives you an excuse to practice more:)  

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