(Closed) The "Shut It Up" Pact 9/3-9/9

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 62
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146 posts
Blushing bee

still good still strong idk about tommrow though… he wants to talk *momma noooooooooooooo* about where we stand

Post # 63
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146 posts
Blushing bee

still good still strong idk about tommrow though… he wants to talk about where we stand *momma noooooooooooooo* 

Post # 64
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32 posts
Newbee

Still going strong ladies! We had a really nice dinner in – homecooked along with a bottle of wine, then played a board game. Looks like last’s week talk really shut me up this time!

Post # 65
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63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Still going strong.  Almost got caught looking at WB on my phone because he wanted to use it to look something up while we were out, so I told him I was Christmas shopping (because I do that a lot on my phone) and I needed to close out of the window first.  

Post # 67
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32 posts
Newbee

I am not sure if it is a demerit point… I was having a bad day yesterday (not wedding related). Usually, my cure is a chick flick and a glass of wine. I settled down on the couch to watch a chick flick… and I ended up watching The Wedding Planner. SO sat down on the couch with me and watched it with me. Gah. The only chick flick that was showing on TV…. has to be wedding related??? He didn’t seem to mind and seemed content reading a book. 

It’s not really an epic fail, more like 1 or 2 demerits. We actually did not talk about OUR own plans (I actually didn’t want to), etc. So I guess that is good? 

Post # 68
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Newbee

@Sapphire-Dreamer: I agree, it’s hard. I’ve been in your spot a few times. Backing off is extremely important. I find that if you do that (without a good talk though), you end up doing it again 2 weeks later. That was ME. Then when I had the talk with SO last week about how hurt I felt that he’s had the ring for 8 months and never once planned anything. I felt upset and disappointed at the fact that I was more committed to the idea than he was, which scared me. He had a major wake up call and gave me a timeline right then on the spot. I think backing off, for now, is good. But keep in mind that you *may* need to gauge his reaction over the next while to see what happens. Good luck!

Post # 69
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793 posts
Busy bee

Well this weekend somehow has managed to be even harder than expected! The only reason why I’m still a contender is because my SO is completely ignoring me so I haven’t been able to talk to him. Dude is a dead man!!

Post # 70
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133 posts
Blushing bee

Still in the game. 🙂 Been a ROUGH morning, but I’m making it

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