(Closed) The Shut It Up Pact (SIUP) – April 16th – 30th

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 16
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Bumble bee

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RobynEileen:  Oh no what’s happened?! Message me if you want *hugs*

Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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RobynEileen:  I’m so sorry to hear this. Do you feel comfortable sharing what happened with us? Sending hugs and good wishes your way <3

Post # 19
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Bumble bee

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RobynEileen:  I’m sorry 🙁

Has he given you a decent explanation yet?

Post # 20
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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RobynEileen:  Like BeeDD, I’m so sorry to hear this. Did he give you a reason why he didn’t feel ready? Do you think you’d be able to work out a new timeline?

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017 - Wedgewood Tower Club

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RobynEileen:  He seems pretty wishy washy about it. Might be time for a serious evaluation of your relationship together.

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2017 - Friendship Plaza

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RobynEileen:  Ugh, sweetie, I am so sorry. You are one of waiting bees I feel are my tribe. If you want to message me to vent, please do so. No judgement, just listening and frank sharing – as the details of our situations are always much more complex and tender than can be expressed.

 

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Post # 23
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Busy bee

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RobynEileen:  I’m looking forward to the wedding. I’m looking forward to all of it. The engagement pictures. Bridal showers. Bachelorette party. The ceremony. The reception. Sharing our special day with our friends and family. The wedding day photos. I’m super excited about our first kiss as a married couple. Announcing our marriage….pronouncing us wives.

OMG EVERYTHING!!! Oh! And seeing the ring she got me. LOL. I guess I need that first…

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

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RobynEileen:  I’m so sorry. I think you guys are a good bit younger than we are. But My SO did literally the same things! In October he had started talking about dates for a wedding and such. Then we ended up in a fight because in December he was saying he wasn’t even near ready and he didn’t see how taking about wedding dates and where we wanted to get married etc, let me to believe he was going to propose soon (men, I mean really?). Then he tried to say he was stressed about buying a ring because I’m so picky etc. So I gave him links to 2 rings which look pretty similar just have different details, so it would take the stress out. In January he was back to not being ready and he couldn’t believe I was the one pushing for marriage because I was the one coming into the relationship who didn’t know how they felt about marriage (true). He basically said he didn’t think he would ever get there. So I kicked him out. Took him less than 24 hours to realize he couldn’t live without me and he was planning to propose late winter/spring. But then he got a new job and we had to put $10K down on a house in a new city, so there went that. Then it back tracked a little to he would start “looking at rings”. Now he says he’s picked one out and it will be some time this summer, but I’m not holding my breath. Hopefully both our SOs will get there sooner rather than later!

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Helper bee

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RobynEileen:  I’m so sorry bee – that seriously sucks. Sending big hugs. 

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