(Closed) The Shut It Up Pact (SIUP) July 16-31

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 106
Member
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I think I’ve been quiet for a week or so now….which is world friggin’ record for me.

Post # 109
Member
53 posts
Worker bee

I’m definitely doing this!! 

Post # 110
Member
53 posts
Worker bee

Dang I’m late!

Post # 111
Member
483 posts
Helper bee

Hello lovely ladies! It has been ages since I’ve been on the bee! I’m not sure if some of you will remember me, but I was a pretty active member on the waiting boards before I got engaged a couple of months ago. I was all over the SIUP! Anyway, I’ve missed the waiting boards, and wanted to come back and cheer you girls on! I know that waiting can be torture. Trust me. I was with my guy for 7 years before he proposed (and his three siblings all got engaged before us even though we had been dating years longer!). It was really hard sometimes, but it always helped to come on here and feel encouraged. Hang in there. I know it’s easier said than done, but the wait WILL be worth it. Try not to badger your SO about a proposal, but also, don’t be afraid to talk to him/her about your concerns and feelings. I think it is important to bring it up and touch base every once in a while, as long as you’re not giving ultimatums and forcing it. I’m thinking of you all and hoping that your SO will propose to you soon!

Post # 112
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2108 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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BrownPlaidBook:  haha, looking at it is better than not looking at it! I promised myself I wouldn’t wear it again until we were officially engaged. I know it’ll feel special either way, but for some reason I want to do that. my mom and I are going on vacation from sunday thru wednesday next week and I am really hoping he goes to talk to my dad then. I told him I am not the type of girl who he needs to ask my dad’s permission. He said he’s not planning to ask permission, just tell him his intentions. I’m in a friend’s wedding today, and I can’t help but think that I can’t wait to marry my SO. 

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