- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
For any of you that have been told a timeline… and as the timeline approaches and you find evidence of him actually making engagement plans…did you find him becoming quiet about all wedding/ring related talk?
About three weeks ago he told me he found a ring he was interested in and was going to go look at it…and we looked at pictures online and had a long, non-stressful discussion about making sure that the style I told him I wanted was REALLY what I want and confirming my size before he went to look at this particular ring in person. Since then there has been no joking (he is a terrible tease about this usually), no discussion, and it’s like it never happened at all! I am fairly sure he went to look at it, but if he bought it I have no idea, and if he didn’t like it, I don’t know if he found something else. He told me when we were having our discussion that he was nervous that it wouldn’t be ready by the timeline he gave me, but I said that I didn’t mind waiting a little longer as long as I KNEW it was being made/ordered/sized.
Is he being quiet because he is nervous or is it because he is afraid he might spill the beans? He has had not been able to keep things secret since this whole process started (he told me when he talked to my dad, when he started looking online, EVERYTHING!). Have any of you had this happen? I now call it THE SILENCE. I have not said boo to him about it since he started being quiet, either. It’s like the word ring has POOF! vanished in our home.