Post # 1
Ok so I am 5 months away from my wedding and don’t have my dress yet, I want that feeling of “this is the one” which I can’t lie, I already got that feeling for a Matthew Christopher gown but the price and I sadly did not mesh well 🙁 . BUT everywhere I go dress shops are freaking me out saying I’m running out of time! I’ve heard from a few friends that this is just a “tactic” they use to get you to buy from them but I’m worried….. Do I have time to really find the one I love or do I really need to get one the ball with it??? Also, do anyone have any suggestions on a similar dress to Matthew Christopher’s stunning “Sasha” dress???
Post # 3
When I ordered my allure in feb they told me it would be here by july. I got it early and I have alterations to be done so it’ll be another month until I can pick it up. I’ve heard you should order 8 months in advance. I’d start looking to order soon.
Post # 4
I would say 5 months is starting to cut it close. I had my dress over a year in advance which I know is kinda early.
Post # 5
My Maggie Sottero dress took 4-5 months to come in, and the salon likes to have at least a month to schedule the couple fittings since they book up quickly. Some dress designers do have a shorter turn around, and some come in within a couple months, but others do take up to 6 months which is why they tell you this- who knows which designer you’ll choose?
There’s always the rush option, but that can often be up to $100 extra. So I would say pick a dress quickly if possible, and make sure the designer you’re ordering from has a 4 month or less ship time.
ETA: Your wedding date is listed at August 11… I’m assuming that’s not correct since you said 5 months away?
Post # 6
I ordered mine at the 6 month cut off and she said I was cutting it close…which is true since it’s made to order…it’s still not here and I am starting to freak out…especially with needing alterations.
Post # 7
You need to get on the ball! I’ve worked in two different bridal shops and when they tell you it usually takes X amount of months, they are usually telling the truth. Now, I know sometimes dresses come in early, but that doesn’t always happen, so you can’t count on that. It sounds like you’re looking at more “designer” gowns, and those usually take longer to come in than say, a dress from David’s Bridal. You also need to think about the time it takes for alterations. That can add another month, depending on what needs to be done. Honestly, you need to order asap…if you still can, as some designers take about 5-6 months to come in. Good luck!
Post # 8
I got mine 2 months before. But I was limited in options because depending on the gown it can take 5 or even more months to order.. Some are only a month. I bought mine off the rack
Post # 9
Not sure if it’s still available, but it says they’d lik to sell it to someone in LA. And I don’t know what your budget is, but it sounds like it’s a lot off the “new” price, plus you could start alterations ASAP. http://classifieds.weddingbee.com/topic/matthew-christopher-sasha-wedding-gown
Post # 10
I ordered mine the beginning of December and it just came in. It was almost 6 months exactly. I think it depends on where youre shopping. Some shops you can purchase off the rack, some salons also have sample sales where you can purchase designer gowns off the rack (the sample gown) but if youre looking for anything couture, custom, higher-end, non-sample, etc, 6 months is pretty standard (and then extra time for alterations). I just went on David’s Bridal’s website and added some random dress to my cart and its saying that if I ordered it now, it would be here at the beginning of June. So there are at least some dresses you can get from them fairly quickly.
Post # 11
Ooh yes, my date is October 5th,not aug 11th
Thank u for all your help…. I think this Saturday I’m going to visit a couple more shops and just make a decision… Just wasn’t sure if i could afford to be a ill more picky or if I should just just get it done. Thanks everyone! Hope this Saturday I will find the one to give me butterflies and it will be a “win, win!!”
Post # 12
I don’t think the bridal salons are lying to you. Wedding dresses take typically 4-6 months from the day you order. The longer you wait, the more likely you’re going to have to purchase the salon’s sample or pay for expedited shipping. There are websites that offer “knock” off dresses and they’ll ship those a little faster.
Post # 13
Mine took 5 months. So while they do encourage you to get it early, you are running out of time for some dresses.
Post # 14
mine is allure and it took almost exactly 5 months to arrive
Post # 15
@Bridesy13: I don’t have any suggestions for a similar dress but I can tell you that it is definitely not just a sales tactic. I’m 9.29.12 and I ordered my dress a few weeks ago. I’m cutting it WAYYYY too close. My dress won’t be in until the end of August leaving me with about 3 weeks for alterations. I’m still freaking out and my dress is already ordered! I fell in love with 3 dresses. First one was way out of my price range. Second one was about $200 more than what was an acceptable price (not including alterations) and the third one (my Mori Lee) was discounted. Hope you find something soon! Good luck with the search!
Post # 16
I would hope that no dress shop would let you order it unless the were positive that it would arrive on time right?? I’m getting really nervous now