Post # 1
I’m sort of stuck. I moved to Philadelphia to work on my post bac degree in speech therapy. I decided since we moved up our wedding date to August 2011 from June 2012 I just want to be in that spot of comfort and settled. I want to work and live in our house and just be at that point. Im moving back to CT in June and just want to be back there, but I’m stuck here for the semester. I have a degree in communications and I’m just beginning to get worried about finding a job. My fiance cant work until his permission to work visa comes through and ultimately his green card… so that makes things stressful as well. I’m just worried about the unknown I hate not knowing where I’ll be or if we will be okay. Luckily my parents have been very supportive and helpful its just.. I cant convince myself that we will be alright.
Post # 3
Take a deep breath and be kind to yourself. So many life changes all at once is a lot for anyone to handle between school, finding a job, maintaining a relationship, work visas, and soon after, the big wedding day! Whew! Hang in there. Would you consider returning to your original wedding date in 2012 to buy yourself some more time settling in, or is that no longer an option? If not, take heart in knowing you will figure it out. It sounds like you’re resourceful and will find a way. Open yourself up to these wonderful opportunities before you and help will come. That safety net will always form, especially when you’re on such a happy mission in life. You’re taking the time to plant some pretty awesome seeds for yourself. Your loved ones and friends will be drawn to you and help you. You will land beautifully on your feet.
Post # 4
@Cornflakegirl: Thanks for the confidence! Yea no way to change the date, all deposits are in. literally everything is paid for and I want to be married. I know something will come along but just having one of those days! But thank you for your advice and kind words! Its always good to hear it from someone!