(Closed) The usual waiting post but with a ~twist~!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: What's a modern girl to do?

    Keep waiting!

    Just propose

    Co-proposal

    Contribute to ring

    Buy own ring

  • Post # 16
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    • Wedding: May 2016

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    beeingpatient:  I realize I’m a little late to the game, but I wanted to throw my .02 in anyway. I was in the same situation as you, my Fiance was ALL in, but he has a disability and can’t work. I support the both of us at a shitty job where I have about NO extra money. I picked a ring I loved, ordered a moissy to replace the aqua center stone and found out that the whole thing (moissy included) was going to cost about $500. It took me a few months to save up the money, but I did it. I paid for the ring in installments with my debit card over the phone. When it was paid off and ready for pickup, my Fiance walked the 10+ miles (each way) to get the ring and then came up with a beautiful proposal.

    So yeah, I don’t see anything wrong with paying for your own ring if that is what your circumstances dictate. But I’d let him propose–he needs to own that shit himself. haha.  

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