(Closed) The Waiting Game

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Will he keep his promise?
    Yes, married by the end of this year : (1 votes)
    6 %
    No, but go on the trips anyways then move on after the last one : (2 votes)
    13 %
    Don't focus on a date just enjoy the relationship : (13 votes)
    81 %
  • Post # 3
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    1013 posts
    Bumble bee

    is its 12/21/12? lol a girl I know wants to get married 12/12/12 cause she said “end of the world, new beginning”. lol if she has the date wrong I will LAUGH because she has been annoying me.

    Might be the trip! Good luck!

    Post # 4
    Member
    1188 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    It’s so difficult to say when it’s going to be. The trip sounds like he might have something planned, but it’s better not to count on it. Have you had a more serious conversation about timelines? I would wait until after the trip and if it hasn’t happened maybe have an honest conversation about timelines. Sometimes it’s hard to know if you are both on the same page if you don’t intentionally sit down and talk about it. For now, sit back and enjoy the ride!

    Post # 5
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    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    i waited about the same amount of time as you impatiently nearly 5 yrs so i know how frustrating it can be when you’re so unsure of the when and if it will happen. my FI used to make jokes about getting married on 12/21 >:o

     like you i had a mental timeline, and i did walk on that day (he proposed afterwards) even though you have your mental timeline are you sure you could follow through on it? i hope for your sake he pops the question before then, it could go either way. but try not to go into these trips with expectations and just enjoy your time together, i know, easier said than done 😡

    every special occasion or trip we had in the past i would cross my fingers, so i know that feeling all too well.

    Post # 7
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    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    no problem 🙂 hope he puts a ring on it soon! ha

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