(Closed) The waiting game and my story/vent/epic saga…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Welcome to the bee!!  My SO sounds a lot like yours.  When I would bring up marriage he would be very anxious and change the subject.  Then I had the “talk”.  I just basically said that I’m feeling very anxious, depressed, angry (depends on the day. LOL) that we are not engaged or married yet and would like to have children soon!!  I’m 31 so my clock is ticking!!  When I told him how I felt I think he started thinking about it more plus he have been more affectionate.  Now we are at the point that we are going to look at rings soon.  It seems like you are really worried about how he feels.  I used to feel the same way.  I didn’t want to presure him or make him feel anxious but then I thought what about me?!  I know my SO and I are meant for each other and we are practically married anyways so I’m going to make this happen.  I think some men get too comfortable and don’t see the point of the whole marriage thing or maybe don’t even think of it.  Who knows.  You just have to let him know how you feel.  It might take multiple “talks” to get him to open up about it but once it’s in the open you will feel a lot better.  Good Luck.

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