(Closed) The Wedding Draws Near… and SUDDENLY..

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
857 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Yikes! Commenting to see what other bees have to say. Everyones been really cool, almost too cool, so i’m worried about this happening! 

Post # 4
247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think unless you elope, you’ll probably have to deal with it at some point… I started telling people ‘once we have made a decision we move on to the next one; so I’m not even thinking about that anymore.’

Post # 5
1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@AnonymousCupcake:  This happened to us too…although it was more of a case of people not listening.  So…it was extremely frustrating to have to explain things multiple times that had already been decided.

@emileekay:  That’s a really good line.

OP: I’d say that!

Post # 6
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Here’s what I’m doing: ignoring, saying no (repeatedly; with no explanation offered), and keeping our plans to ourselves until either asked or the contract is signed. We haven’t really dealt with this a whole lot, but what little there has been has been really annoying.


Post # 7
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

be lucky you only have to deal with it for a few weeks and not your entire engagement! Just ignore them, smile, move on and enjoy your day!

Post # 9
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

All I’ve gotten so far is pressure to invite folks who I just don’t know/like very well! my mom was also a little pushy at first wanting to do the flowers herself but I was able to talk her out of it!

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