The wedding is off…

posted 3 months ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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1618 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Location

Shit. Sorry to hear, he’s horrible. Good thing you called it off now. Time to treat yourself.

Post # 3
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1905 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

Congrats on avoiding a nasty divorce!!!

 

That said… *hugs*. I’m sorry he was a piece of dung. 

Post # 4
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662 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2019

I’m so sorry to hear this! Your dress is one of my faves. I think you made the right choice and with time even more clarity will come with your decision. 

Post # 5
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750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but you deserve so much better, and I’m glad you were able to see that <3 

Post # 7
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296 posts
Helper bee

willowrose15 : I’m sorry to hear this bee. Lots of virtual hugs. With time you will see that it was one of the best decisions you made in your life. Take time to heal, be kind to yourself. What you did is very brave and I hope you have a lot of support and love around you.   

Post # 8
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666 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

It takes strength and courage to call off a wedding.  I’m sure you’re hurting right now and I’m sorry for what your going through, but know that you did the right thing.  You will be happy again. 

Post # 9
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234 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry you’re going through this but good for you, it’s for the best! You will find someone that deserves you! Stay strong!

Post # 10
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3084 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2006

Brave of you to walk away! Future you thanks you, I promise! 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

willowrose15 :  how utterly devastating. I’m really sorry that happened to you.

You are extremely courageous and wise to walk away. I know it has to be excruciatingly painful now, but you will be soooo glad you didn’t go through with the marriage in the end. 

You are free, bee. Treat yourself to a spa day and do something extra kind for yourself to keep your spirits up once you’re up for it. Lean on your family and friends during this time. You will be okay!

Post # 12
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8454 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Everything they all said. Germaine Greer once said of a woman in your position that she was “ more intelligently emotional and more emotionally intelligent” than him . That’s you .

Freedom is grief right now, but will not be forever. Or even perhaps for long. 

 

 

 

 

willowrose15 :  

Post # 13
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235 posts
Helper bee

I’m so sorry that you are going through this. You deserve a better future.

Post # 14
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4230 posts
Honey bee

Therapy does nothing for an unfaithful partner. People recommend it all the time for a rocky relationship, but in many cases it’s useless. Therapy is best when you are having a problem with yourself.

OP I’m sorry, but I’d be even sorrier if you tethered yourself to this loser. There’s life after ending an engagement and I’m living it. Give yourself time to grieve and then move on. You will be that much stronger for having had the courage to end something bad.

Post # 15
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8759 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

I’m sorry to read this OP but congrats on dodging that bullet. 

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