Post # 16
- Wedding: Fireman’s Pavillion
Thank you all so much for your loving and encouraging words <3 I’m sorry for the late responses, I’ve been trying to keep myself from being a negative person on a board that is supposed to be full of happy and exciting energy.
Just wanted to update ya’ll and say I’ve had 2.5 straight weeks of crying, but for the past few days, I have felt amazing and supported and haven’t cried once! It feels great to go to bed no longer feeling insecure about myself or my relationship.
bibliophilacticbee : sydneybee4 : sending you back virtual hugs! They are so much appreciated.
misty2007 : Thank you! I still love my dress, just the wrong guy. I will just have to wait for the right guy to come along.
sunburn : I hope your post engagement life has treated you well, and that you have also had tons of love and support to lean on. If you ever want to talk, I am here’s
Post # 17
So glad to read you’re feeling amazing & supported & secure. A little more support coming your way. Go you!
Post # 18
willowrose15 : I’m glad to hear you’re hanging in there! It really does get better, I’m living proof. I met my husband a little over 2 years after my engagement ended. I really needed that time and didnt want to be tied down. That was 35 years ago! I know that had I stayed with my former fiance I would have had a rocky road and things would have ended one way or another. He actually got in touch with me after New Years after finding me on FB. He was traveling nearby so I invited him for dinner to meet my husband.
Talk about weird lol.
My point is that you will be just fine. Give it time and be easy on yourself. Always remember your own value and be secure in the knowledge that you did the right thing. And now you’re smarter! You know what to avoid! We learn a lot more in life from the things that are painful than the occasions we seem to skate over with ease. Corny but true. Take care!