- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2011
So last weekend I was at a wedding of shall we say mrsS. FH was best man.
Now it is a long story as to how Mrs S meet Mr S but key are some key points
– Mrs S lied about her age when they first meet – she said she was 5 yrs older
– She stole his key and later returned it in order to meet
– 2 yrs into a nursing degree she was pregnant to him(however did not know for 12 weeks)
– Mr S proposes the day of the scan
– Now baby is 18 months and a great kid
So she is not the most honest of people and speaks very negatively of Mr S a lot. Now I put this down to immaturity and not knowing any better and since Mr S is a great friend so we rallied behind them,
I threw a baby shower for her when she moved into our city – was one of the first to visit at the hospital the day she gave brith, I have baked and cooked for her when Mr S is away for work (every 8 weeks or so) and basically bend over backwards to help them out.
So our weddings and that of a mutual friend were planned about the same time – a month separating each and it was decided we would share basics so we could have a uniqueness
So imagine my hurt when I show up at the church to see a red and white theme morph into pink and silver
– my colors have ALWAYS been purple and silver
and she arrives a dress TOTALLY opposite of what she had told us she would be wearing….this was what she said
this is mine
and this is what she showed up in
and she walked into the song Fh had told the groom he had chosen for our first dance. His face was crushed when she arrived and he later told me why
Now I am really hurt she betrayed my trust as she had every chance to let me know of changes but it seems she went out of her way to keep it hidden.
i am getting married in 3 weeks and she will be there as Mr S is a groomsman
I am so hurt and devastated at the betrayal and cruelty of it all i am not sure what to do
… do I say something or just let it be?
What you you do bees?