(Closed) the weddings off

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

Fingers crossed that you’re only late due to stress. 

 

Anyone who tells you they hate you is not worth being around

 

It sounds like he is very emotionally unstable.

 

I’m sorry hun. *hugs*

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Oh girly, so sorry! 

people say strange things when they are angry, but I am with SherryBerry, anyone who tells you he hates you is not worth being around. 

best of luck I wish life didn’t throw so many curveballs 🙁 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry to hear this and I really hope you’re only late because of stress and not because another baby is on the way.  

I understand your ex is hurt but the things he said to you are inexcusable.  He sounds like a mean, vindictive person and not at all the kind of person you want to raise your family with.  Good luck to you.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

So sorry to hear this and I hope your not expecting because that will be the fuel to the fire.

 

He may be hurt for whatever reason but there is no excuse for what he has done or said. (Why does he think you cheated? If you don’t mind me asking…) I hope you have the strength to leave and prove to him that you don’t need him. Easier said than done but he seems to be over it all and out to hurt you.

Post # 9
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148 posts
Blushing bee

A jealous & irrational person who says extremely hateful things when he’s upset? You deserve better & I hope you realize this.

You should have told him about staying w/your guy friend, sure, but if you’re that afraid he won’t be the least bit understanding, why would you want to marry the guy? Sounds like there’s a lot of immaturity in the relationship.

I hope everything turns out okay. Good luck!

Post # 10
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2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You can do better. I hope you believe that.

Post # 11
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2981 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh, what a mean, unstable person. Anyone who would propose just so they could hurt you when they broke it off seroiusly needs counseling…

Be strong, girl. He dosen’t sound like he’s worth a single tear.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry… try to stay strong! Thinking of you <3

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If he’s like this ALL THE TIME, do you think it’s possible he’s suffering from a personality disorder of some sort? If he’s up for it, I suggest counseling. If not, as much as it hurts, it’s best to just let it go. You can’t FORCE people to get help or fix themselves. I’m sorry, hun! I hope it all works out somehow! 

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