Post # 1
ok so here is the laugh.
i dated someone for 15moths when he decided to cheat on me with the girl he now lives with and has got pregnant in 4 months!
he started dating her whilst he was still living with me and i had no idea he was leaving til i got dumped on facebook ! (yeah well rid of that one lol)
anyway he was the childhood best friend of H2B
their friendship had been waning for a while but once we announced our engagement it got really off with the ex friend calling H2B and claiming he owes him a lot of money
BUT he has already asked why he is not best man and has insisted repeatedly that he and the girlfriend are coming to the wedding.
honestly some people have no shame and no manners
actually i am finding it funny now but the thought of them just turning up on the day is niggling away in the back of my mind.
Post # 3
@LauraBenbow71: He dumped you on Facebook. ‘Nuff said. What a weirdo.
Post # 4
Wow. Sounds like an …interesting guy. Hopefully he doesn’t show up!
Post # 5
I would tell him the wrong location of the wedding. lol.
Post # 6
arent you having the wedding 200 miles away from where he lives? lol i agree with HawaiiBamaBride about telling him the wrong location, pick somewhere pretty far away lol
Post # 7
Wow, what a gem! If you really want to ease your mind, see if you can find a venue with controlled access that would provide security against unwanted crashers.
Post # 8
@HawaiiBamaBride: Oooh, good one! You should send him a special invite with a different address on it so he’s occupied during the wedding. Typically I’m not a vengeful person, but he was living with you, dating someone else and the dumped you on Facebook?? This guy is ridiculous.
Post # 9
My ex (who, along with others in his family has harassed me and my Fiance for months) is also my FI’s cousin and he wants to come to the wedding. I put my foot down and said we’re not inviting him (although my Future Mother-In-Law wants us to invite the rest of the family, even though they have been terrible to us). It sucks.
Post # 10
Sounds like a winner lol…I hope he doesn’t show at the wedding! I would just ignore him…If you don’t give him the info, he can’t find it… right?
Post # 11
@LauraBenbow71: well it would be impossible to give the wrong address as his parents run the reception venue
but there will be enough people around i hope to ever so nicely tell them to “go away”