(Closed) The worst proposal ever.

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: Is this the worst proposal ever?
    Yes : (22 votes)
    11 %
    No (please, post the worse story) : (181 votes)
    89 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

    I don’t think it was the worst proposal ever. [Post moderated for snark/personal attack]

     

    I’m sorry your marriage didn’t last long. I hope you resolve your issues, and that your ex can move on and find the right girl for him. 

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Adams_bee:  I kind of agree.

    OP, we need way more info. I thought the proposal was very sweet and unexpected, exactly how I would have loved to be proposed to. Actually my dream proposal is waking me up with it. So…spill. What actually happened?

    Post # 6
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    578 posts
    Busy bee

    wow. I would say that was a great proposal, but I’m not all about the ring.

    I’m sorry about your divorce, though.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    So are we supposed to be angry at you or the guy? Cause it sounds like the guy was doing what you wanted him to do. It also sounds like he stuck with you even though you had issues. And in the end, he did what you asked. 

    Also, it’s not a “sign” that a relationship is done just because he got the wrong ring style. 

    I just dont understand your point. Are you bitter? Are you wanting us to agree that he was horrible? Do you want sympathy? 

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Adams_bee:  Agreed. What on earth…

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I don’t think it’s the worst proposal ever. It sounds like he knew you were sad/upset and was trying to make you happy!

    Post # 11
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    That’s a whole lotta crying! You might want to look into therapy.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    its hard to think its a) the worst proposal as i am sure many people have been proposed to like that or very similar. Not everone gets the romantic writing in the sky. and b) had to dislike the guy when im sorry i feel sorry for him if you knew it wasnt him and wasnt forever you still said yes. still got married ect

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    i agree with the other bees, the first paragraph- proposal sounds sweet, mine was something similar ( i was crying and shouting his head off and about to storm off home in a cab to never see him again)

    the ring could always get changed for the right size etc, it does not seem like the ring was the problem

     

    then it looks like there is a huuuuuge gap of infomation that is missing that should come before the second paragraph

    still, im sorry you wouldn’t work out your differences and the relationship didn’t last

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    [content moderated for name-calling]

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

    [Post moderated for snark] I probably shouldn’t be wasting precious time on here, but OP would you care to clarify?

    You were feeling bad. your friend had just been engaged and that made you feel bad (why?). you didn’t want to buy at house with Fiance (why?) and it made you feel trapped (why?)…..he proposed (didn’t you want him too? because if you didn’t, why were you talking to him about rings?) you said yes, but then regretted it (why? and why didn’t you talk to him about it instead of leading him on?). you didn’t like your ring (wtf. he PROPOSED TO YOU.) and because of that you regretted saying yes…..? 

     

    so you were upset about having to depend on Fiance for a house, yet you didn’t mind spending $$$ on a wedding you knew wasn’t going to last. and you wanted him to give you a better ring. just not help with the house. 

    WOW.  

    Post # 16
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Yo, it’s only as bad as you think it is. What is it that you feel badly about? How it was done, that it was a mistake, or that you went through with it?

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