(Closed) The worst waiting week continues…….argh

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@GIJen:  Oh NO!!!  That sucks, a lot AND it’s Monday…but you have the chance to put some excellent engagement karma out into the universe and help save one lady from engagement hell….I know it’s not an easy thing to get enthused about, but if you tell yourself that if it was your soon to be Fiance, you’d want someone to help him out…maybe that’s the good energy you need today!

Post # 4
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9625 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Big HUGS, just think, soon it will be your turn and then you will be able to go around with that glow, discussing all the details of how it happened etc ๐Ÿ™‚ It is worth the wait as hard as the waiting is!

Post # 7
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9625 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@GIJen:  I am so sorry ๐Ÿ™

Post # 8
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@GIJen:  I would tell my boss that I would help him out for a bottle of champagne and some cupcakes…might as well profit from the whole thing….any By The Way, just read about your SO’s decision to not get married….I would follow that with a decision to shrink all of his underwear in the laundry….

Post # 9
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2122 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Baby #2 due Sep 2017

@GIJen:  Oh no! Your SO took you jewellry shopping then realised he didn’t want to get married after all!?!? I’m so sorry to hear that.. I’d be absolutely gutted! *hugs*

Try to talk to him to find out the reason (trauma from his own parents’ divorce, financial, age..) or maybe he’s just not the One.. in which case you may have to move on I’m afraid ๐Ÿ™

Post # 10
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4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Very sorry to hear about his words regarding not wanting to get married. I agree with other gals saying you need to seriously figure out how serious he was about his comments.  If you two arent on the same page, let him know you wont be wasting anymore time.

Post # 11
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446 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@GIJen What was this conversation like where he decided he didn’t want to get married after looking at rings?

Kind of cruel, but I definitely know some guys that would use a line like that to throw you off so they could surprise you.

Do you think that’s a possibility or definitely meant to break your heart?

Post # 12
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314 posts
Helper bee

Wow…Im so sorry to hear. Why doesnt your SO want to get married? Isnt that the goal of a relationship?

I can imagine how you fely about your bosses. That should inspire you though! I just told someone that its likely if people star getting engaged around you, then you might bebnexy. Your guy may just be trying to surprise you. 

Post # 13
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251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Just going by your previous posts- are you military as well? If you are then you should know better than anyone that people in our job tend to get engaged and married far to quickly and for all the wrong reasons- that’s nothing to be jealous of!

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