(Closed) There better be a reason behind all of your nice-ness!!

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ohhhh…that sounds promising!  I remember right before Fiance preposed he was being SUPER lovey dovey…which was pretty out of character!  But hindsight is always 20/20.  Are there any other things coming up?  Maybe he’s just getting really psyched up about moving in?  (Just don’t want you to get your hopes up and have that not be it!)

Post # 4
1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Take things as they come and appreciate his extra attention, but realize it could be, as jenandchris said, just his excitement over the coming move.  I know for me, personally, I have to fight really hard not to get hopes up around holidays because un-met expectations can really ruin an otherwise great time, especially when the other person peobably doens’t know why you’re upset, and you feel stupid and selfish for being upset in the first place.  Enjoy being pampered and just be happy together – he might have something planned, but he might want to live wiht you a bit before making the BIG decision, so just take things slow and keep the anticipation to a minimum if you can 🙂

Post # 6
6659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Practice expectation management, but that does sound exciting!! DH also got like that right before we moved in together, but unfortunately it didn’t mean he was excited about getting engaged. He still waited as long as he possibly could which wasn’t pretty. Keep reminding him about your wants and needs, but enjoy every minute of the living together!

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