Post # 1
Good morning ladies…
I have been so stressed out last night ……. i said i have to make a post today… Well my snookums told me last night that my cousin been harrasing him about when he is going to ask me to marry him….. I was total shocked so i asked him which one and he told me… she has been married for 9 months and though she was helping… so she told my swnookums that i love the holidays and that i am expecting it during the christmas and he should asked me then or else am going to be dissappointed….. OMG! Why would she do that? So snookums told me that she was stressing him out and he doesnt want anyone to know when he is going to do it… He said that it is something sacred and that he wants it to be a suprise and since everyone expecting it during the holidays then he would just have a change of plans….. OH Well i said to myself there goes my christmas proposals… I told him i was not suspecting it.. it was a wish of mines and i could not said anymore i just started to cry … i am so upset with my cousin… why did she do that…??????????????????????????????????????????
I am so upset and sad… am just trying to shake that feeling off and get in a good mood for we are traveling to Atlanta wednesday for the holidays with family… but am so sad….
Post # 3
I’m sorry that your cousin did this! HUGS!!!!
Post # 4
((((Hugs)))) Your cousin really DID mean well, but you need to let her know that her actions were more hurtful than helpful.
If she understands that the pressure is keeping your Boyfriend or Best Friend from proposing, she might back off.
Post # 5
thanks ladies… i couldnt even sleep well last night… i am so sad.. and stressed… am trying to calm down before i tell her how i feel…. thanks for the hugs i need them i know i can always count on you ladies… for encouragement
Post # 6
Aw. I’m so sorry she ruined it. That’s one reason I’m glad no one in my family knows except my sister.
Post # 7
ahh, i’m sorry things got all weird like that. i’m sure she was only trying to help but even good intentions go awry sometimes. i hope you have an enjoyable holidays either way.
Post # 8
His family pushes and picks all the time, but thats not the constraint… $. Boo. I hoped for a Christmas proposal too, but not happening… I feel your pain.
Post # 9
Maybe he’s trying to throw you off, so he can surprise you on Christmas after all?
Either way, sounds like it’s coming soon!!
Post # 10
HUGS!! I’m so sorry your cousin spoiled it, but it seems like your man wants to do something special and really meaningful. At least you’ll have something to truly remember and treasure (like, your own holiday!) when he proposes!
Post # 11
Oh, hugs! A similar thing happened to me a few weeks ago. 🙂
Good news is- it’s on his radar! The fun part is now the wait (or so I tell myself). Sending you best wishes!!