(Closed) There should be a Crisis forum *Sigh Long Sorry*

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh my Gosh, just know that everything always happens for a reason. Just wait it out and see what happens. 

Post # 4
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18641 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I hope that it’s just a bad feeling and that you aren’t really pregnant.  Normally, people don’t conceive until about 2 weeks after their period if their cycle is around 28 days but if you have an irregular cycle it might be different.  Whatever happens, I’m sure you two can figure it out!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

How long is your cycle? It sounds like you were intimate pretty early on and may have missed the fertile period. All I can really suggest is monitoring your body for any changes. The worst part is waiting. It can be awful when you can’t tell for sure. 🙁

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I totally agree with Myra G…everything happens for a reason. Try not to stress too much…sooon enough you will be able to find out for certain!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Oh my.  I’m sorry that you have to deal with this right now!!!  IF you are pregnant – because you might not be – but IF you are, and you still want the honeymoon/not breastfeeding at your wedding etc…is there any way to move up your wedding?  No matter what…you can still have a dream wedding and blog about it and have another baby.  You obviously love each other a lot – you want more children – a child might just be coming a little earlier than expected.  But no matter what, if you love each other and are the right partners for each other, then you will figure out how to juggle everything in a way that works for you. hugs!!!!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

That’s tough! Fiance has had a few cousins get pregnant prior to the wedding, and we swore that we’d change that pattern. However I switched my pill from night to morning, and have taken 4 late this month.We too want kids immediately, but I’d rather not be visible pregnant on my wedding day!FI and I talked about it today actually, the ‘what if we got pregnant’ talk. I’d be awfully embarrassed having a baby shower instead of a honeymoon, but Fiance and I both agreed I’d get a new dress and we’d stand there feeling extra blessed. Not a situation i’d like to deal with though.

Good luck. I hope that you aren’t, but life doesn’t always go as planned.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

The good news is you know you want to have more children soon. Don’t stress about anything until you know for sure, but even then, IF you happen to be pregnant already, it’s reason to celebrate (even if it happened earlier than you’d planned)! I’m sure you’ll make the best of it. You *may* just have to increase your guest numbers by one Smile

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) I’m another know i’m pregnant after a few days… i agree with the pp everything happens for a reason when will it be time for you to take a test?

Post # 12
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577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I agree with other posters, everything happens for a reason!  This might be a bit off-topic, but isn’t there another way to get affordable birth-control pills (planned parenthood, generics, etc) even if your insurance doesn’t cover it?  It might be valuable information for other bees searching the threads … anyways hope everything works out for you, I am sure it will!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

awww, your Fiance is so cute!!!  I know it’s hard to do, but stressing about it now won’t help anything … and since you guys know fo sho that you want kids soon then either the “yes” or “no” would both work, right?  

I was asking about the pill because I take YAZ for both BC and my hardcore PMS, and I don’t know what I would do if my insurance didn’t cover it!  It’s a bummer that your employer’s health insurance might not cover all of your needs though …

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

You need health care. Your employment and insurance situation right now is *cough* less than ideal.

Go to planned parenthood, they have a sliding scale. They have *wonderful* health care services and are one of the few accurate sources of women’s health information. Your situation is exactly why I donate to them – people need access to affordable healthcare. Also, if you chose to do so, they can help you with low cost birth control methods/prescriptions.

I’m sorry that all of this is happening at a less than ideal time. 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

If you do decide you want the pill now or in the future, a lot of those discounted programs like at walmart or target have a generic pill for $10 a month… The timing sucks, but better to be one month post-pregenacy than 9 months pregnant and risk going to labor at the altar, right?

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