- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
What the most thing you will do when you will get married? Sharing with friends. Yup, we shared everything with them. And how if they don’t come up with unacceptable reason??
My wedding will be held on holiday weekend and a lot of unlogical excuse they said to not attend my wedding. Then when i know the truth, they hurt me so much.
All my close friends are in one town with me, so I think there’s no unlogical reason to not attend my wedding. We are being friends since school age. Almost 13 years!!
The first person for first “CAN’T ATTEND” is: she said she will have a VACATION with her OFFICE MATES to Bali and her company will PAY ALL the cost, the flight, hotel, food, everything!! Even the company give them pocket money to have fun there. I know it really sounds great, but i hope she choose to attend my wedding rather than that. And I’m wrong. Feel disappointed? Yes! She really KIDDING ME!!! I have no idea she can do it to me, our close friendship means nothing to her. And then another thing that she said (stab me again) is: As chinese tradition, the quests will give red pocket (hong pao) to groom and bride. Then, after she choose to not attend my wedding, she said this easily: “DON’T WORRY, I WILL GIVE YOU THE REDPOCKET.” *sigh*
I said, “I don’t concern on your red pocket. Your presence is more important.”. Then she said, “I don’t care what will happen, I just want to have vacation to Bali. The company PAY ALL the cost. When I can enjoy this if not now?”
Then another friend is going to Jakarta to have fun there (this is what she said to me). OH GOSH!!! Then another truth is coming up, she is not going to Jakarta –> She lies to me. She canceled it and buy tickets to visit a friend at another town.
Then the third is come out with another reason. Also vacation with her crush. Come on, she can also attend my wedding with her crush. I just dont have any word to describe them anymore. It feels like they stab on me directly. Feels BETRAYED.
I just can’t imagine how can they do this to me! At last I realized, not everyone smile at you is your friend. Even they ever going through the good and bad time together with you. Their reason are not acceptable. All what we call friendship at school time means nothing to them. They leave my wedding coz of the vacation. Come on!! You can have vacation anytime! But when will you share your best time at your friend’s wedding?! Your best friends are not getting married every year!!!