(Closed) There's a Storm Brewin!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
19 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am also having two MOH’s in my wedding because I couldn’t decide and I didn’t think I should have to decide since weddings have so many different charactertics today… The sister should still feel honored to be asked!

I have been in weddings before when there was someone in the bridal party that caused drama.  The best thing to do is be there for the bride no matter what.  Try not to get in the middle of things especially since she is her sister and part of her family. In the end the bride is going to remember her sister being a pain and she will remember you being there for her, the way it should be!

 

Post # 5
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2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’ve lived this situation before. If the bride still wants to keep the two of you, ask her to verbally divide who the lead is on stuff (eg. bachelorette and shower) because that’s when it gets sloppy. You can PM if you need!

Post # 7
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780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I have two Matrons of Honor. My FSIl & my only firend I invited to the wedding. I was orginally going to have just my Future Sister-In-Law, but she said that she & her daugther (Jr. Bridesmaid) may not be able to come to anything, because of 8 year old niece’s invlovement in softball, maybe not even the wedding. So, I asked my friend. I was in her wedding almost 20 years ago. Mind you I didn’t expect Future Sister-In-Law to actually do anything just show up to my shower (she has no involement in at all), bridesmaid tea, rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, and wedding.

Then FSIl finds out about that I asked someone else to be in the wedding as well, she hits the roof.

 

I totally understand what you and your friend are going though. Tell the bride to stand her ground and you stay strong, sounds like you are a great friend. Good luck.

Post # 9
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780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Nona99:  I’m glad it worked out for you!

I look at it this way, if my Future Sister-In-Law hadn’t of made those comments about maybe not coming, I wouldn’t have asked my friend. Our wedding is about 55 people, not huge. You would think a 44 year old woman wouldn’t be so petty. Oh well, she will have to get over it. 

 

I’m really glad you won’t have to deal with that.

Post # 11
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780 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Nona99:  I am just being nice for my Fiance and his mom & dad. Future Sister-In-Law will either get over it or she won’t, not my problem. I understand about drama, my dad’s enitre side of the family is banned fromt he wedding. My dad is good with that. Long story. This isn’t my first wedding, so I know what’s important. Smile

Good luck to you.

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