- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
ok , so i need to rant and get perspective on the situation – i have 3 brides maid ( 2 of these ate my sisters ) – we went bridesmaid shopping in december – both my sisters didnt want to purchase anything as they were not happy with there figure , they told me they wanted to lose weight – im not asking them to they told me they want to – so we suggested going back in april – 4 months later in april we go back they have lost no weight and struggle to like any dresses – i really wanted sage green and found nothing – me and my mum eventually found some nice dresses but only came in navy – to save the headache i changed my colour for them to navy – they were not 100 percent loving the dress but i do and if they want to lose weight we can alter it , otherwise im happy as they are …..
so the drama starts : they decide that the dress been strapless is a bit to revealing – i dont think it is but arranged witrh my mum to have a dress maker add a piece of material to the bust line – that is all!
My sister calls me today – they have added the material to the bust line and also added a layer of chiffon over the whole dress and some extra diamonds on the chest band peice for extra sparkle and so that they dont cling to there body and make them body concious!!!! – i am furious ……. they didnt not ask me to do this and my mum and my sisters went ahead to do so … im so upset , i already didnt get the colour i wanted and then when ive changed my mind to help them and i get a dress they like they have altered it – they said i am been ungrateful when my mum has gone to the effort and expense of paying for these alterations – i never asked for these and they told me the dresses would be fine cos they were going to lose wight – however i think they look great as they are! – am i right to be so cross? i cant even speak to my mum and sisters right now!!! i put no pressure on them and i got them dresses that look great – they are a uk 16 and 14 as they are now but they said they dont want to feel fat so had these added extras done to it!
i have inserted the original dress :i cant imagine it with a chiffon over layer??????