(Closed) Things to do with your Spouse….

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: porn with your spouse?
    Yes : (31 votes)
    33 %
    No : (37 votes)
    39 %
    Maybe : (7 votes)
    7 %
    Sometimes : (19 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    506 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I don’t think there is anything wrong with it if you both want to!

    Post # 4
    Member
    661 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’m not offended by porn, but the major downside of it for me is I think porn gives men an unrealistic picture of the way women look, their endurance and patience for the length of certain sex acts, and what their true desires are.

    Post # 5
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    3471 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    There’s nothing wrong with watching it together; and if you expecta changelike that after you’re married, you shouldn’t be getting married.

    There’s no reason why you should stop once you’re married. And I think expecting someone to is just a recipe for disappointment. 

    Post # 6
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    3471 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    @mimi123:  You raise a fair point about expectations and things, but at the same time, if you can’t have an open and honest conversation about sex with your spouse, I don’t think it’s fair to blame the DVD collection.  I don’t believe this applies more or less based on marital status.  

    Post # 7
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    3452 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Nothing wrong with watching porn if you both like it.

    Post # 8
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    9674 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    There’s nothing wrong with it for me and Darling Husband, we watched some together just the other day.  😉 

    Post # 9
    Member
    986 posts
    Busy bee

    If you want to do that together, or even separately, then go for it! It’s just not for us, so we don’t do it.

    Post # 10
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    661 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @juliette.eliza:  I agree with you.  I am currently working to try to erase some of the “expectations  and things” a certain someone in my life has absorbed from porn.Embarassed

    Post # 11
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    479 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I don’t see anything wrong w/ it.. It’s a good way to get more ideas, and keep things fresh in the relationship. It’s like role playing. Not many ppl like that same old stuff. but it’s really not for everyone.

    Post # 13
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    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I don’t think there’s anything wrong with watching it together or separately. I think the biggest issue with expectations is with women expecting a partner who enjoys porn to give it up. Those are the biggest issues waiting to happen.

    Post # 14
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @SpecialSundae:  “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with watching it together or separately.”

    Same.  There is nothing wrong with porn in a marriage unless one partner is replacing the other partner with porn or has reached a point where they are addicted to porn and it is affecting their personal and professional lives.  But a healthy relationship with porn in a marriage is just that – Healthy!

    Post # 15
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    2781 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Porn can add some flavour to your sex life, there’s nothing wrong with watching it. Humans are visual creatures, and men are typically even more so then women.

    Post # 16
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    492 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I would not feel comfortable with my Fiance watching porn. If you are single, then porn is a fine substitute, but I don’t think porn is appropriate for people that are in committed relationships. I know that most of you disagree with that, but… oh well. 

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