@StaceyA: I think there is something about having that first grandchild, and giving something that no one else can give. 🙂 Since I already have a child, I know that when my brother has one or I have another, that there is still that same excitement just different! For whatever it is, I hope that helps 😉 I am totally in your corner for being first though 😉
Doesn’t it always seem to happen that way?? And I happen to like immature, petty and pathetic 🙂 I’m in yoru corner as well!!!!
I totally get where your coming from, you are not a bad person 🙂
Oh man, what a struggle! They say stress can affect conceiving, but I don’t know how to make that less stressful!?!? Stay positive whatever you do! Walk the walk, act like you are confident your BFP is coming next month…because it is! 🙂
Awww, I hate to see you down on yourself!! You are not holding him up, it just hasn’t been your time for whatever reason but it will come! You know that I am in your corner, along with a ton of other bee’s! We all deserve a meltdown once in awhile, and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it 🙂 In fact, next time send me a quick message and I’ll be right there with you! 😉
I already have one child but I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from! Seeing the boards remind me of how lucky I already am to have my daughter, and I promise not to take her for granted ever 🙂 If I could give up a second child to know that it would allow someone to have their first and only, I would!! I truly feel for those struggling with their first!
You didn’t deserve it whatsoever! I am keeping my FX crossed for you, your situation in no way ties in with others 🙂
You are not wrong at all for feeling that way, I know of two couples (the men brothers) and there’s couldn’t have ended any more badly. Somehow it turned into a race and now they are not talking. Just keep your blessings first and foremost in your mind 🙂
Oh that sucks, sounds like with MrsPuddingFace kinda pushed to the background! But you did annouce your BFP so here’s to a boy!!
I think that’s a common fear, but there are a lot of thigns you can do now to start preparing!! Charting, reading, etc..