(Closed) Things your SO/FI/DH should not say to you

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

“Just relax”

I dont know why but this one just realllly gets to me!

Post # 4
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5784 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

“You just need to tone”

Yes, my Darling Husband has said this

Post # 5
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189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

“What a cute little belly…” STFU Mr. Beer Belly!

“You shouldn’t be upset/angry/etc over that…” Gee, thanks for telling me how what assanine thing you just said should make me feel, that really helps! He usually whips this one out at the peak of an argument just to push me over the edge.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

“I didn’t like x you made for dinner”

Me: Why not?

“I just didn’t”

Me: Then eat a Hot Pocket and can it.

 

He does zero cooking and is a picky eater. grrrrrrrr.

Post # 7
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

“Don’t worry about it”. 

In response to a question he does not want to answer or he knows will upset me. Literally like this: 

Me: “Is your mom really coming to visit?”

Him: “Don’t worry about it.” 

Post # 8
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

@PitBulLover:Agreed Agreed Agreed! I CANNOT stand this. Seriously, it pisses me off so bad.

Post # 10
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3126 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Any variation of “It’ll all be okay” or “It will all work out” when I am worried or stressed about omething. I know he means it to be comforting but I would rather put a plan in place and when I try to ask questions or figure out a solution do not placate me. GRRRR.

Post # 11
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891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

my husband likes to say that i’m “chosing to be upset” when he pisses me off.

i tell him he’s fucking A right i’m “chosing” to be upset and that he needs to “chose his words wisely and i won’t be upset:)”  lol

 

 

Post # 12
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2263 posts
Buzzing bee

I can’t stand it when he says ‘shut up’ even in a joking way. It just kills my mood in a second.

 

Post # 13
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143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@hellomrsko: haha, an ex boyfriend once told me my stomach was “marshmellowy”…and he thought I should take it as a compliment!

Post # 14
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5985 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

oh, boy. I HATE when Darling Husband says:

“I am going to pick you up” he always tries to pick me up. I HATE it. I weigh more than him!!!! LOL

“just chill” THIS IS THE WORST ONE! I could scream when he says it.

“leave me alone” that is what he says when I want to go to bed and he is in his computer room and I keep going in there asking when he is coming to bed LOL

 

Post # 15
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7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@nontraditionalmiami: OMG my husband says the same thing…grrr!

 

@MsBrooklynA: yes, I have no idea why but OMG I cant stand that!

keep them coming, I’m entertained 🙂

Post # 16
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929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

“I’ll do it in a minute”

I’m still waiting for alot of those minutes

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