(Closed) Things your SO/FI/DH should not say to you

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

“I love to push your buttons.” — ugh!

Post # 18
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@Mrs.ChubbyBunny: Mr. Ko is too. He’s getting better but he is stubborn and holds weird grudges against certain things like a little kid would and makes goofy excuses for me not to use whatever when I’m cooking. I had to yell at him about sweet hot mustard the other day, told him I was using it and if he didn’t like it he could make his own… Ate it and liked it… *facepalm*

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

“Just calm down” XD

 

Tell me to “just calm down” and I will go crazy on you! It feels like my emotions are being trivilaized!

Post # 20
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Umm, last night he said my pizza sauce was “pretty good.” My mom started perfect that recipe when I was in kindergarten, and I’ve starting tweaking it as early as middle school. And apparently’s it’s just “pretty good???” Taco Bell’s gotten better reviews than that from him!!!

Post # 21
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@bmarie12: Guys are so weird! He genuinely likes it… I’d prefer to not acknowledge it, however… LOL!

Post # 22
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@ttn133: I had an ex who would say that. “Are you PMSing? Cause you’re being bitchier than normal” EXCUSE ME?!!?!

Oh, and my other favorite, from the same ex “You know, I like to go out without you a lot. You’re kind of boring.”

A-what?!

Post # 25
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Helper bee

When he asks me a question, I answer and over top of my answer:

 

“okay, okay, okay, yeahyeahyeah, got it” THEN WHY DID YOU ASK! Don’t talk over me when you wanted to know what I thought!

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@PitBulLover:  it’s just his little immature way of trying to get under my skin when he’s mad at me.  he’s passive/aggressive so that’s his style of arguing.  it’s so obnoxious.  thankfully we don’t bicker 24/7 but we do argue from time to time and he tries to pull that shit but i always outwit him:)  i’ll say something like, “aww a little passive/aggressive comment…you must not have any valid defenses in this argument” 

he usually shuts up after that lol

 

 

Post # 27
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Congress Hall Hotel

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@MissTatas:I hate that one too!  And I always get the ‘why can’t you just trust me’…. when he hasn’t gotten the groomsmen suites yet.  Ugh!

I hate it when he says ‘I am sorry that you feel upset’.  Notice it is not that he is sorry for his actions but sorry that ‘i feel upset’.  So irritating.

Post # 28
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

“Bedtime!!”  – I know this is weird but there is more to it. Very often he gets ready for bed (a total of 5 seconds) and gets into bed before me. This means there is no cuddling and since he snores it also means that I will not be sleeping the whole night. I’ve asked him to give me a 10 minute warning but he usually doesn’t. 

Post # 29
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@Ms. Martian: OMG! Fiance does this exact thing and it is soooo irritating. 

Post # 30
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2020

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@bestbuddies: Ahhh my guy does that too!!!!! It freaks me out to know end, and I just end up feeling bad cause I know I’m not a skinny girl.

Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

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@LGenz: Ugh, any comment on hair/grooming gets under my skin like nothing else. Just today he informed me I have some (very light thank you!!!) hair on my toes. “Just a little strip of wax will take care of that.” Really? I had NO idea that wax removes hair!!!!!!Wow thanks!!!!

And this coming from someone who has the feet of a Hobbit.

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