(Closed) Things your SO does that bugs you

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
650 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@laceydoilies:  LOL you just described me. My poor SO, he is ALWAYS having to wake me up and I’m FAMOUS for hitting snooze for a good hour. I think he deserves a massage tonight lol. I can’t think of anything he does that drives me crazy but I’m sure I drive him crazy every weekday morning 😛

Post # 4
8469 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

TMI warning, so read on at your own risk lol.  My husband gets really gassy, and while this isn’t usually a problem, he has gassed me out of our room before.  In fact, one night it was so bad I ended up sleeping on the couch because I thought I was going to throw up.  It’s one of those things that’s sort of hilarious, but really stinky at the same time.

Post # 5
1018 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

DH has really bad sinus cavaties… so every day when he wakes up he snorts and halks up all the lovelyness that has settled in his cavaties over the night.

makes me gag, its disgusting… and lucky for me, its every. freakin. morning.

that and he uses a buzzer for his facial hair (more so to trim the hair, not shave it off completely) and i often go back into the bathroom to find little chin hairs stuck all over the sink because they didnt wash down. ugh!!


Post # 6
2420 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My FI leaves his socks EVERYWHERE. Like in between the cushions on the couch, in the hallway, on the livingroom floor. I feel like I am constantly picking up his socks.

He also always leaves the toilet seat up. I was half asleep one night and actually fell into the toilet because he had left the seat up. Ugh.

Post # 7
964 posts
Busy bee

DH spits on the ground outside when his sinuses are acting up. It disgusts me. I’ve never ever felt the urge to spit on the ground and was always taught it was rude! But he does it all the time. I’ve seen his mom do it to several times, so clearly it was a bad habit she taught him. I told him we will be raising our kids that it’s wrong and he’s not allowed to do it in front of them!


Post # 8
875 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsGatito:  His Mother spits on the ground in public? Wow…that’s odd.

Post # 9
875 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d have to go with DH leaving the toilet seat up…as PP has stated, I too fell into the toilet bowl in the middle of the night and that water is cccccoooooold!!!!!! I’ve learned to live with his other little idiosyncracies.




Post # 10
1282 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017 - Baton Rouge, LA

he clears his throat.. all the time. and now i have a coworker who also does it & is even worse. so im constantly surrounded by phlem rattling throat clearers 24/7. AGH!

Post # 11
3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

DH leaves his socks everywhere.  We have 4 laundry baskets (colors, whites, towels, and delicates) and he can’t manage to put his socks in any of them! 

He wears a hat almost every day, and he leaves those everywhere too.  He claimed “There’s no place for him to keep them all”, so I got him this thing that attaches to the back of a door to hang hats on. They still do not find their way there. 

Post # 12
2123 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

i hear you. My SO is out of work right Now, but the alarm thing would be really irritating. Last night my SO wakes up about 1 am wondering what ‘that noise’ is. I honestly don’t know or care, but by the time he stomps around the house and figures out its someone plowing snow I. Am wide awake and couldn’t Get back to sleep for quite a while, while he comes back to bed and goes right to sleep. So things like that drive me nuts. Also, when he decides to do the dishes as soon as I start making something to eat. He does this all the time! Wait until I am done!!! Lol

Post # 13
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014


Post # 14
3378 posts
Sugar bee

@laceydoilies:  My FI does that too. In fact he will ask me to set my alarm (which is right next to my head) and make sure he gets up. Hello, you’re the only one of us who needs to be up and I’m not your mother! Blah.

Speaking of closets as a PP mentioned…I have a shoe rack. I put it there before FI moved in. Unfortunately there is nowhere in our bedroom to fit a second dresser, so FI’s is in the closet. I’ve told him about a billion times to open the door ALL THE WAY to avoid knocking all my shoes down. He doesn’t. He knocks them down often. And when we went to do laundry last week he found one of my sandals in his laundry basket. Luckily he didn’t wash it!

Also, water. *sigh* I keep a bottle of water on my nightstand. I always wake up thirsty. The kitchen is on the other end of our apartment. FI kept drinking all my water and then not refilling it. So I gave him his own water bottle. Do you know where that bottle is now? No? Well neither does he! lol. Which brings me to my next point…

It is impossible for him to put things back in there place so we can find them later! Ha!

Post # 15
9692 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@housebee:  That is sort of hilarious, lol. Sorry. I can understand that it’s gross but there is comedic value 😀

@Billsgirl:  Sorry, that is also funny, lol. I am glad my husband doesn’t do that!

Normally, MrPanda99’s snoring doesn’t bother me but last night it did. Between him and the dog, it was louder than usual…or I’m more irritable than usual. I always try and fall asleep before those two, lol. 

Post # 16
3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

@blondie_bride:  I wish mine would hack it up! He “can’t.” So he can’t get rid of this terrible cough he has. ANNOYING

Also, my FI is diabetic and he has a very bad sweet tooth. He’s not very mature about his health in general. 🙁

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