(Closed) Think I just lost a great friend thanks to my big mouth!

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m glad everything is working out.  I’m a bit concerned about how badly you beat yourself up over it, however.  You clearly have some self-esteem issues that your Fiance is certainly not helping.  I urge you to talk to somebody, you can’t hold the weight of the world on your shoulders forever.  🙂

Post # 48
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1373 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mrskisstobe: I’m glad things are working out between you and your friend. I also wish you the best working through your own issues as well – it takes so much hard mental work to change your mindset and really accept yourself and your body, whatever size it happens to be.  It sounds like you’re hard on yourself about a lot of things.  <<<hugs>>>

Post # 49
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111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

she is just stupid. this is ridiculous.

Post # 50
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6377 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I dont understand what you did wrong. She definitely overreacted. Its not like you suggested she take the diet pills. Honestly, I dont even think you needed to apologize since you didnt do anything wrong. Hopefully she gets over it but if I were you, I would certainly not feel bad about this. 

Post # 51
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1128 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@hzleys100: Is that comment supposed to be helpful in some way that I’m not understanding?

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Usually I would say to give it some time but being that there is a surprise party coming up I would suggest that perhaps going would help solidify the fact that you really do want to be her friend and you are always going to be there for her.

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