(Closed) Delete.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Say nothing. I don’t think you have enough evidence to say he cheated on her. Plus, if it was a one time thing that I knew he’d never do again, as the gf I honestly would not want to know – ignorance is bliss sometimes!

Post # 4
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8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’d stay out of it. You don’t know for sure and it’s not really your business to get involved.

Post # 5
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You do nothing.

As you said you only think, no proof.  If you tell her it will be your word against his and you will likely be the bad man in this scenario.

Maybe she does deserve to know, but if you tell her what does she gain out of it? If her Boyfriend or Best Friend is not a loyal doting father and bf, then what will happen to that now-great relationship? Is it worth telling her something you think?

 

Post # 7
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2105 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You don’t have enough evidence to prove he cheated. However, you do know things that the gf might not know. I would share with her what he said without insinuating or speculating anything else. “Your bf said this in public to me and X other people. I thought you should know that he said these things.”

Post # 8
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9887 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Lovemelovemyhorses:   Stay out of it and say nothing.  Nothing good can come of your saying something to her.  It’s up to him to tell her if he so chooses.

Post # 9
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

In this instance I wouldn’t tell – I’m sure if he did cheat the guilt is eating him up inside as it is.

I’ve been in a similar situation, except he flat out told me “SecretBee, I cheated on X.” Long story short, I told her and as a result am no longer friends with either of them (they broke up and never got back together after this).

 

 

Post # 10
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Since you don’t have any evidence,  I would stay out of it.

Post # 11
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1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Do nothing.

It’s not your place to say anything.  She might already be aware.  Either way, it’s not going to help the situation or your relationship with either of them.

Let it be.

Post # 13
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1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Good luck with this situation!  You’re a good friend!!

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