(Closed) Thinking about changing heirloom engagement ring…

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
9168 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it’s totally fine since you have permission to do so. The only thing I would say is don’t use the current diamonds to put towards the value of your new diamond but it doesn’t sound like you would do that anyways. You could also get a brand new e-ring (if your Fiance is on board) and keep the heirloom as your RHR.    

Post # 4
1546 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

make a pendant with the heirloom one? and sure upgrade if you can and want to.

Post # 5
437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I think making another family heirloom is a great idea. A pendant or another ring.


The band it part of the past and the new diamond is the future. Marry the ring, the old and the new. 🙂

Post # 6
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Can you change the setting so that the heirloom ring can be your wedding band and pair it with an engagement ring that you love?

Post # 7
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@reebee:  I like this idea! Have the grandmother’s ring changed so that the center stones sit flush with the other two (like it was origionally) and it can be a three stone wedding band 🙂 I think it would be a shame to break up the ring too much. I’m always jealous of girls who have heirloom jewelry!

Post # 8
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I might just wear it as a right hand ring and get a new ring made as a wedding band with a larger center stone, or whatever you like.  You don’t NEED two rings – you can wear one as a wedding band and keep that one as it is and still wear it. 

Or, change it to be more like a wedding band and add a solitaire. 

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