(Closed) Thinking about cheating….(long)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
248 posts
Helper bee

I would stick to it and not say a word. Especially because he made a cash withdrawal… I would think that could possibly indicate that he’s using it for a ring. Since no mention of it has been made and he knows you do his banking, in order to hide a purchase he would have to make it in cash. Of course, don’t get your hopes up too much, you know how men are. You don’t want to expect a proposal around a certain time and then feel crushed if it doesn’t happen. In the same respect, it sounds to me like he may be on the right track!

Have you talked at all in the past about engagement/marriage with him?

At this point, stick it out through V-day (and until he gets back from his trip), and then if you haven’t had any sort of timeline talk about engagement/marriage yet, then I would say it’s ok to bring it up in a calm and mature manner just to get an idea on where he stands.

Post # 4
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well I would wait until your anniversary on Feb.6 just in case he has plans for that.  After that, I would discuss what you want to discuss since he won’t even be here for Valentines Day!

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