(Closed) Thinking of calling it off?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3831 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I read “the only reason I accepted his proposal was because it was public and I didn’t want to make a scene by saying no right then” and that was enough. 

if thats the only reason you accepted, its over and you need to break it off. 

Post # 4
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3683 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

He cheated on you and expects you to always pay for everything.  You said yourself that you don’t like him.  Dump him.

Post # 5
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2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

…You said you don’t like him? Why on Earth would you marry someone you don’t like? You literally do not say a single positive thing about him in your entire post. Leave.

Post # 6
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2842 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Come on, honey.  You said it without saying it.  Dump him. And don’t look back.

Post # 7
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856 posts
Busy bee

Call it off. Plenty of people end engagements, and it’s more common than you would think.

Dump the guy!

Post # 8
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My family doesn’t like him. I don’t like him.”

!!! You need to find a way to break if off 🙁

Sounds like you can do much better than him! 

Post # 9
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203 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

In my opinion, when someone asks a question like this it’s because the person already knows the answer but reassurance is good.  All the flags are there, I hope you are able to make the best decision for you.  

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

LEAVE

Post # 11
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951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

How is this even a question? If you don’t like him, ditch him and find someone you actually care about!

Post # 12
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It’s time to go. Definitely dump him.  You will probably feel like a giant weight has been lifted off you when you do.  The person you marry should be someone you LOVE (nevermind like…) and someone you want to spend your life with.

Post # 13
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164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

You know the answer already. And from what I’ve seen from other bees on posts like this, no one is going to judge your decision or disagree with you about him needing to go.

Post # 15
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11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

On the off chance this is real, you should leave him.

Post # 16
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5664 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Why is this even a question???

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