(Closed) Thinking of changing my MOH.. but already told her she will be my MOH

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

Maybe you can tell her that you want a bridal party that is closer to you geographically so that they can help out with the wedding. But to soften the blow, maybe you can let her do a reading at the ceremony or something?

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

You should definitely do it now because it’s not going to get any better as it gets closer to the wedding, and you don’t feel comfortable about a bmaid choice (who was not even your choice!)

Try to get her to say it first—lay it on thick by telling her everything you’ll need her to do, like be there for the engagement dinner, bridal shower, bachelorette party, pick out bridesmaid dresses, etc etc…it will be awkward in any situation but I think this is the best way to do it.

 

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