Post # 1
I still have another 8 months to go, but I had my third nightmare about the wedding last night. Is usually always the same, I forgot something nd wasn’t prepared for the wedding. Last night, it was about the wedding sneaking up on me, I had no idea that the wedding day was already heramend I spent the entire day before twe wedding running around trying to find flowers (for some reason in every dream about the wedding, I forget about the flowers) and decorations for the ceremony and reception.
why am I having this much anxiety 8 months before the wedding? I was just going to DIY the flowers, but after having nightmares about not having flowers, I think I might need to book a florist :/
Post # 3
@Southerngirl4234: I wouldn’t stress about it. Your mind is probably just running through checklists, and flowers might be what it gravitated towards. If you’re feeling uneasy, download a thorough wedding checklist (you can find them through a simple google search) or maybe see if you can find a wedding consultant that will be your day of coordinator, and give you 4 touch base meetings. It might let you sleep at night!
Post # 4
I’ve been having wedding nightmares too…the 2 that stand out are the one where I forgot to mail invitations and most recently I had a dream that I never got my dress altered and then at the last minute everyone decided they weren’t attending the wedding and I was running around asking every if they were coming or not…
Post # 5
Totally normal. Been having them since before I was engaged.
Post # 6
@Southerngirl4234: You aren’t alone….I started a thread a while back b/c all I was doing was having bad dreams about the wedding. Mine was always about me not having enough time and the wedding starting late, etc. Once I got closer to time and things started falling more into place and I had less and less things on my check list….then I noticed the dreams were coming less and less. It’s all par for the course…..try not to stress too much. I know easier said then done….LOL