Third time is NOT a charm

posted 3 months ago in TTC
Post # 16
906 posts
Busy bee

A normal, healthy couple can take up to 12 months to concieve. No reason to be worried yet.

At 35 though, you can probably get in to see an RE at the 6 month mark if you are still not pregnant by then. Usually they consider it infertility if you are 35+ and have tried for 6 months without having a pregnancy.

Good luck!

Post # 19
451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - California

Sorry to hear that! I took way too many of those last cycle and saw too many BFNs to count. I hope you get your BFP soon!

Post # 20
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Sorry to hear that! While by 12 dpo there is a good chance of seeing positive on FRER, you are still not out.

We are on our 4th cycle, both my husbands and I are 34, so I am getting a little stressed to conceive as soon as possible. We got married 1.5 years ago and decided to wait for a year before having kids, travel and have fun. And for some reason I thought once we start trying we will have a baby right away. Not the case:( 

I am 9 dpo today and started testing but also show negative. Trying to stay positive

Good luck to you! 

Post # 22
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

winencheese83 :  

Thank you girl! We also had a very long flight for our honeymoon and then had another trip planned and we were buying a house, so figured it all would be too stressful. I am still glad we waited. Our relationship is much stronger after a year. It would be way too stressful if we had to deal with all this TTC stuff right after getting married

I am currently 11 or 12 dpo. Still BFN on FRER and period is due on Tuesday. I am sure I am out at this point:(

Until next cycle! 

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