- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
So i have to kinda of vent a little it really sucks but I figured no other place and you bees i hope won’t judge. So my whole planning process has been amazing! And i actually thought i wouldn’t f’ up on anything! Well, in June I did and it wasn’t a small mess f’ up it was a major part. “GUESTS” Yes the more and more I plan for some reason I am relieved i am over the guests part but it some how comes and haunts you! Im sure a lot of people feel this way thinking you have it under control but there is this thing called “WORD OF MOUTH” with families and some members just can’t keep their mouth shut I don’t blame them or hate them for it cause they are obviously excited for that day they have to share it! lol
to give a quick idea what happened. The guest list was made combining the list we got from our parents and our list. It actually made it easier to see who is officially invited then you have the danglers from the lists of the parents. You know the ones the they want to invite but you don’t know at all? or the ones you really don’t care to share this day with them , its not that they aren’t family more of the I never met that family before?
Anyways, back on track. I actually forgot to tell the parents who were invited and who weren’t. So both sides thought everyoen they gave us on their list was invited of course. So my fiance and I had to do crowd control he told his mom and i told my parents. We got two different reactions my parents were like COOL! 🙂 Although there wasn’t any damage needed anyways on my side because they have been helping and involved this whole time! Now his side, his mom has been working my dress so she hasn’t been with me besides that and my fiance actually forgot to tell his mom too! So he has lots of crowd control.
Luckily, our families love all of us so much there wasn’t any hurt feelings besides of course the usuall the people who thought they were going to get an invite were informed they weren’t. But i am grateful that the parents were understanding!
Sorry this is so long. I just needed to get it off my chest because I am still doing crowd control on fiance side. Now there are some people his mom forgot she was talking to and now of course the closer it gets the more they start to pop up and she has to keep doing crowd control.
I guess it just blows when the one thing you think was goign to be the easiest actually turned out to be the hardest!
-rant, vent over –