(Closed) This Dress?! Help me girls!

posted 6 years ago in Dress
  • poll: What dress?!
    Keep the Ambrosia! : (23 votes)
    50 %
    Get the floral! : (6 votes)
    13 %
    Neither! : (13 votes)
    28 %
    Keep looking for something more bride-y! : (4 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Hostess
    23597 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @faitherfordandtom:  Only you’re going to know if you’ll regret it later or not!  I think that second dress is pretty, but to me personally, it wouldn’t be enough.  But like I said, only you know yourself!  Go with your gut – Ambrosia is a beautiful wedding dress, but if you’re not feeling it, I don’t see why not dress #2! ๐Ÿ˜€

    Post # 4
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    2117 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m not a fan of the second dress. It looks too informal and childish to me to be a wedding dress. But if you are looking for something more casual, get something more casual but more bridal. I don’t think the Ambrosia is what you are looking for.

    Post # 5
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    3141 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I do not like the second dress ๐Ÿ™ sorry I know its an elopement but you can wear that dress any day …. Stick w your original 

    Post # 6
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    27 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    First one for sure! Second doesn’t look bridal at all… U can wear it for engagement party or photoshoot, or even annyversary next year ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 7
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    3371 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    The second one doesn’t look like a wedding dress at all. Having said that, you should feel like yourself on your wedding day – and given you say you love the style of the second dress, I get the feeling that the first dress is miles away from what your normal style would be.

    I would keep looking. The first dress is a LOT of dress, there’s a lot going on. If you’re uncertain then by all means, keep searching! But I personally don’t think the second one is your dress either.

    Post # 8
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    8483 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I actually love the second one. If its your style then go for it! Only you know what you want and only you know if you’ll regret it or not.

    Post # 9
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    404 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m not actually a huge fan of either. But go with what you like! If money’s no issue, the second isn’t all that expensive, you could get it and try them both and then decide. If you love it then I’m sure you’d find a time to wear it. But keep in mind, you can probably never get away with the mega dress again.

    Post # 10
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    25 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    ive gone for the first one. maybe because the second reminds me of a maxi dress i used to have a few years back. But if its what you feel comfortable in then go for it. its your day afterall

    Post # 11
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    2857 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    If you like the second dress, then why are you even considering the first? They are nothing like each other (I know: Captain Obvious).

    I’m not compleely sold on the exact design of the second – the pattern is a little bit “little girl”, but the same dress with a different pattern – 100% for the win.

    Post # 12
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    45 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It’s your day, so go with what is the most “you”! I do agree with other bees though on the second dress. I understand the style difference and the first dress probably does not suit an elopement, but maybe keep looking for a more simple dress? I understand your feelings regarding a new more “you” dress, but I think you can do better than dress 2!

    Post # 13
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    6221 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I dont love either one. I think you should try to find something a little nicer with the same bohemian vibe that you’re looking for in the second dress. You can probably sell your current dress

    Post # 14
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    250 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I really DO NOT like the second flower dress..it looks like something i would wear to the beach or around the house doing gardening.  It is not bridal or elegant or anything that is ‘special’ enough for a wedding day.  I think if you are going for a more casual wedding there are alot better dresses you can find!

    Try this website, it has a few more casual dresses that still feel bridal…check out the reception dresses as well!

    http://www.bhldn.com

     

    Post # 15
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    551 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    um, the first dress is a=-maaaaaaaazing! I’m so surprised you’re doubting it. Jealous!!!  I’m a dress regret-ee (twice, actually 1st was due to a venue change though, from the court house to an actual venue, so definitely needed something a little more fancy).     I have to say that only you will know what you want to look like walking down the aisle. That being said, how many times do you get to wear a dress like #1? No wedding dress is really YOU- because it’s a wedding dress for ONE day-that you’ll never wear again, if you dont dress up really fancy a lot, you probably wont feel like you in any dressier dress, because it’s not all the time that you’re putting something like that on? I picked a more froofy dress than I actually thought I’d evvvver wear. But I LOVE it. I started with a simple dress, and while it’s pretty, it’s just a simpler dress, I love it too, just not as much as the bigger fancier bridal gown that I later bought. It’s really personal taste. Good luck! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

    Personally I like the Ambrosia better.  I do like the floral but not for a wedding dress.  I think if you love the floral, purchase it for your rehearsal dinner.  I had my eye on a short dress and thought about maybe wearing it for the reception but ultimately decided to wear it for the rehearsal instead.

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