This guy is really confusing me ?

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Life is too short for stupid games. If you like him, invite him out for coffee or lunch outside of work. 

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: -

LOL ooooh my god, this is cringe. Bex said it all.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I was going to say this sounds like highschool. Then I saw your age in your other thread which confirmed my suspicions. Stop analyzing his every move & playing games. Ask him if he’d like to hang out outside of work. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - York, ME

How old are you?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

Work relationships can be confusing, and a lot of times people get involved just because of proximity. Work relationships can end in a train wreck! Especially if you still need that job after things end badly.

I would be very, very careful about screwing around like that where you work because it will be SUPER awkward if things do not work out. If he isn’t making moves, leave it alone and do your work. I swear to God you will regret opening up a can of worms if he isn’t serious, you got your feelings involved, and now you have to see this man every day. Even worse if he starts flirting with someone else after you do not work out.

Yes, I have experience with this and it was horrible when it ended in the worst way possible. All that joking and laughing and hanging out is great — until folks aren’t serious. Do not do that at work.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

i would never date anyone i work with. but if im very frank and i would ask him simply if he was attracted to me and ask him out to dinner. and let it burn or fizzle

Post # 8
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Helper bee

I agree with other PP that this is the kind of analyzing and obsessing I used to do in high school. It doesn’t really still have a place when you are an adult.

I’m not really a big fan of girls asking guys out, but if you feel confident enough, go for it… If it were me, I’d probably find out if we had some common interests, and see if there were some events we could attend just as friends. Get to know him outside of work, spend time with him, flirt some more and see if things develop organically from there.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

Did a 13 year old write this?? My goodness. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Don’t screw the crew.

Don’t fish from the company pier.

Don’t shit where you eat.

 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

It’s my personal opinion that a man who runs around playing “office husband” for kicks and confusing people’s emotions is an immature person and should not be touched with a 10-foot pole.  He’s attention seeking.  I would back off of that immediately.

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