(Closed) This is a tricky situation. Help?! (might be long)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Why exactly are yall so worried about her? Unless it’s about drugs or an abusive boyfriend, something truly life threatening, I’d leave her alone. She’s an adult and probably doesn’t want her roommate or family members questioning her about her choices. When she wants to talk, she’ll talk. She’s going to feel ganged up on if a family member she doesn’t speak to and a roommate collude and ambush her and make her explain her life to them.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yeah, I’m confused.  Why are you worried about her?  Why is the roommate worried about her?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wait- so the roommate is telling you she is worried about her, but won’t tell you why?  How are you supposed to act on that?  That’s too cryptic.

As far as the tires go, that could be nothing.  My friend’s car recently got keyed for no reason (we figure it was probably by some stupid kids).  Another friend’s tires got slashed in high school by some girl whose boyfriend liked the friend. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would definitely find out what’s going on with her behavior before deciding to intercede.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree that there has to be something valid to be worried about it. Its fine to have general concern but you cant really do anything if there is nothing major going on

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m glad you at least heard from the roommate!  Now we don’t have to go hang out in front of the police station!

Seriously, though, it seems like you have an “in” to at least go over there now, maybe by invitation of the roommate?

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think you should an email to the roommate requesting more information. Your draft message looks good. She’s contacted you for help – I think you’re safe to offer a little help.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I have a cousin that’s loke my sister so I can understand how you would be concerned not hearing from her. Can you find out where she lives? I would pop up over her house.

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